humans do have legitimate needs connection, belonging, affection, attachment, community. Those are part of being human. But I don’t think that’s the same thing as needing a specific person to provide them.
2026-06-03 10:45:41
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Trish Berrange :
I want to just meet someone kind, honest and trustworthy
2026-06-01 19:11:13
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searchend25 :
"I know the difference between wanting and needing. Wanting is a preference. Needing is a chain. I have broken the chains. I do not need a relationship to be complete. I am complete in the Father. I may want companionship — but I do not need it. That is not coldness. That is freedom. My side is low — not because I lack capacity for love, but because I lack emptiness to fill. I am full. The Father fills me. Anyone who comes is welcome — but not required. That is my peace. That is my wholeness. That is my love — free, unattached, real."
2026-06-08 05:53:10
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Roh_poetry :
It’s actually the opposite coming from a research background—- Need = fulfilment Want = desire
The ‘need’ is greater. And lasts longer. And it fulfils you.
The ‘want’ is temporary. It’s transactional.
2026-06-02 17:52:41
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bono_main :
And why you ask her.
2026-06-01 15:04:57
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user01332894219 :
I am at this point on the pod and it was great to hear her this morning on the drive to work she gave me some good advice and insight
2026-06-02 16:33:49
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official_designaboy :
and she's not saying not to fall in love either, dont be dependent💯
2026-06-01 23:42:46
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Cityboy :
What a nice little topic
2026-06-02 04:15:51
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Jay Samuel :
After this should I job my love too? 😂😂 Hahaha
2026-06-03 07:51:11
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Light Within | Anastasia :
This is the difference between attachment and genuine connection. Do you think most people realize that only after heartbreak? 💭
2026-06-01 15:26:08
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Gabriellexo0 :
Want is different then need.
2026-06-02 05:30:31
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courtney.rogerson :
“No hidden agenda.” 🎯💯
2026-06-01 18:02:13
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أحمدإمام = a motivator🦁✔️ :
Jay, I'm from Sudan and I've been following you for many years, you're great ❤️
2026-06-01 14:21:16
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Jowita Garach :
I'm whole person❤️
2026-06-02 20:20:18
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Maria :
This 💯
2026-06-01 14:53:48
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Kudzai🎀 :
💯 💯TRUE !
2026-06-01 14:20:45
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AngelTee :
Amen
2026-06-18 18:10:17
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Tidbit :
You this is the worst take ever, when you love someone deeply you’ll need them not want them. When you want a person it’s like wanted that shoe or bag from the store you’ll eventually throw away… when you love a person you’ll need them in your life…
2026-07-20 09:35:24
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Moffo Ana🦋 :
exactly 🥰
2026-06-18 17:31:03
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Nomandla Hallam🇿🇦🇫🇷 :
So true
2026-06-11 09:28:56
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Mae James :
Yes i hear you
2026-06-24 05:37:17
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Kita :
I met the Love of my life I was 19 and we are still together! We didn’t know NEED or Want !
2026-06-13 06:45:31
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hope and peace ✌️ :
truth
2026-06-02 09:32:01
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