@bxpica55o: That video hit harder than people realize. A lot of men today don’t feel loved… they feel evaluated. And when a man starts believing his value only exists through money, desperation enters the room. That’s why some men are depressed. Some disappear. Some abuse drugs. Some enter fraud and crime trying to “catch up.” Some are working themselves into emotional exhaustion. This generation of men is under pressure from every angle. Yes men need to lock in. But not fake social media “alpha male” locking in. Real locking in means: • healing properly • building discipline • learning skills • escaping survival mode legally • protecting your mental health • rejecting self-destruction Because some men are not chasing luxury anymore… they’re chasing proof they deserve to exist. The streets are cold bafethu 💔 #women #relationships #itsbx #southafrica

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thandeka.sithole48
Thandeka Sithole :
I'm a single mom working and paying all the bills myself but still at times I'm not happy. We all need someone in our lives not for them to provide but someone to be there, to listen to you even when you're quiet
2026-06-02 04:54:42
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ice44083
Ice :
This hits home very hard, l was dumped when l lost my job
2026-06-02 06:33:42
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tebogophatlane663
Tebogo Phatlane :
I know..my marriage ended because I didn't have a job and I was broke.
2026-06-19 07:44:52
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usertee_manolo
Tee_Ma_Nolo :
I wish I could hug all men going through the hardship.🫂♥️
2026-06-03 06:48:21
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kinglosby
Dlambili :
I’ve lost my job around 2024 but she never turn her back from me,even on this day he still with me,and honestly am blessed for having her in my life,and the level of respect she gives me am honored Bafwethu.
2026-06-02 06:25:05
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user8278152176348
Michelle :
I love my husband with or without money, and when he was not working i used to give him my card to withdraw my salary every month and today his working and I'm his queen 🥰🥰
2026-06-03 05:42:13
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hlophep
me :
I am happy with my employed man. he is enough, I love his wisdom if anything I'm learning a lot from him, how to be confident, how to handle myself and be disciplined and stay grounded. his the father of all my children, I've seen him with and without money and I'm happy to be with him.
2026-06-01 16:28:12
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natasharose038
natasharose038 :
Money is not everything...
2026-06-02 18:01:40
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user37009769192452
Witty :
Not in my name, love is not about material things🙏🙏🙏
2026-06-02 04:18:49
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sliesthenjwa2
😍C'lie-M :
My Man and I are broke but we are happily inlove shame
2026-06-03 08:42:42
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silas.mokoena
Silas Mokoena :
Not my wife i lost my job last year she is still here with me..🥰
2026-06-04 07:38:48
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lucky_biyela
Lucky Sizwe Biyela :
I was once dumped because I lost my job because of COVID 💔
2026-06-08 23:10:48
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mapssetlhako
Seeker of Light :
My man is currently not doing well financially but i know it's just a season. I belive in that guy so much. I speak life into him, I pray for him. He has this amazing product and I know the moment God open doors him it's going to rain hard.
2026-06-09 05:17:59
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carnal197906
Tendani T Dagada :
I'm a divorcee now,lost my job in 2022 due to depression,I'm trying to restart my life but it's hard.Always asking myself everyday if I would ever make it.Lost everything and it still hurt alot.
2026-06-12 22:57:35
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sphinx_lunatic
Sphinx Lunatic :
Mina I thank social media. Social media showed me how worthless relationships became useless. My goal is to make sure my son gets the best life. Relationships and love... NgiRight and thank you social media, I am good.
2026-06-07 07:39:32
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luh_lama0
Lady Luh :
Life can humble anybody 🥺
2026-06-04 03:29:03
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neoking1632
kingneo :
my brother I always say if love never give you a chance at your lowest than don't give love a chance when you make it ❤️
2026-06-12 12:39:19
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edison_deep_sa_
Onthatile DecentGuy :
Been single for a year. I can finally have 5 K in my bank 15 days after payday. I'm not only saving money i put effort on myself. My only responsibility is my daughter & that's where I spend my money cos i already have my wants
2026-06-15 14:29:47
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kennyb779
KennyB :
I can't be happy as a broke man. How would I expect someone else to be happy with me
2026-06-03 07:55:13
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sam_iam01
$AMIAM :
Most of us are not chasing wealth anymore, we chasing proof that we exist - that hit home big bro 😔😭❤️‍🩹
2026-06-04 05:22:08
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faithera10
Faith :
I might not be the happiest single guy out there but I'm happy with my single self.
2026-06-02 14:28:40
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pinezozer
Pinezozer :
I'm working on myself but I'm with someone who doesn't appreciate what I'm doing for her. My efforts are not noticed.
2026-06-02 19:59:36
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siphodledle
Sandile msenti :
I don't know if you guys know this but June is men's mental health awareness month. I love you bros and keep on pushing, we'll be fine I promise
2026-06-02 05:57:07
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