@nicknamed.bree: 🤯💡More Things I Wish I Knew When I Was in Love with a Dismissive Avoidant: Tough Love Edition! Hold on to yer hats. #avoidant Products used: @퓌(fwee) @fwee @missha.beauty.shop @BK Beauty Brushes @Rom&nd US @롬앤 romand @L’Oréal Paris @loréal paris usa @e.l.f. Cosmetics @Stila Cosmetics @NeeDoh Official
Yeah have learned this. Be more direct and talk say what you need in a way. They are very service oriented. And might need a direct task. Also to challenge their notion. They might construct something as unreasonable or such. Then its good to bring it up ask them to clarify. Like they might overthink that they might give up something completely to meet you. But thats not what you mean. Cuz DAs might warp the narrative. So you clarify that its just for a bit you want to meet etc a weekend or sth. Not make them give up their hobbies or spare time or w/e. Clarify that thats not what you mean and state what you mean. And that its not unreasonable. Challenge their narrative.
2026-06-01 19:46:51
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user9065397534951 :
I accused him of cheating
2026-07-20 19:18:31
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𝐓𝐈$𝐇𝐀 💸🍒 :
Was about to ask the highlighters name & brand 😂😂
2026-06-25 22:05:45
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lvl1k0n :
Actions over words, yup
2026-06-01 21:19:26
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peach :
It’s what we needed to hear. Thank you Queen 🤝
2026-06-02 00:02:21
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Nelly Lov :
Bree help! I’m going to see my avoidant ex situationship in 2 weeks at a mutual friends party. We haven’t seen each other in 2 months. I haven’t reached out once, but he’ll randomly dm me and I engage and then he literally ghosts me after I respond. There’s so much I want to say when I see him, but I’m going to try and hold back, but I also don’t want to be cold and dramatic and ignore him
2026-06-02 05:31:08
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ddpatton422 :
Fearful or Dismissive?
2026-06-28 15:07:17
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qwerty :
When you say actions over words - my avoidant is strange in the sense he will tell me “I don’t love you, I don’t find you that attractive” when he’s activated, but his actions are so sweet, he would do anything for me, he is generous, he does thoughtful things. So I am confused 😭
2026-06-02 08:41:29
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Wordsareallmodelsown :
Did they tell you that they were an avoidant or didn’t they realise they were?
2026-06-17 18:28:42
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Brian :
🙏🙏🙏As always good content Bree 😊👍
2026-06-01 19:42:22
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backpack :
“It’s not fair and neither is life” -Bree and fathers everywhere
2026-06-01 20:15:48
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Mr. Pibb :
no worries. I avoid avoidants. the headache isn't worth even the best outcome.
2026-06-01 20:41:39
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wisdomvault :
The issue I keep running into is that whenever I try to have a real conversation, they either deflect or shut down, which only creates more distance between us. They just want to keep things fun and light
2026-06-03 15:37:09
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user4773387310824 :
I always said how I felt to their face so I feel good about that.
2026-06-02 13:05:03
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