@melisamayy: Sometimes people don’t hold onto a relationship because it was perfect, they hold onto the fact that it could’ve been different if there was more effort, better timing, or deeper communication. Potential is hard to grieve because it still feels unfinished. You stop healing when you keep grieving the potential instead of the reality. What helps is accepting not just what the relationship could’ve been, but what it consistently was because if they wanted to, they would have 🤍 #relationshiptips #SelfImprovement #breakup

izzy :

the worst part is when you keep begging them to make effort knowing it can change alot and they look you dead in the eye and do the exact opposite

julesii :

If they choose to lose you, they were never "your person"

Kali :

Guess we are all going through this rn

🍃XSpiritedHaku🍃 :

All we needed was that uncomfortable conversation we avoided 😞

keeble_7 :

All it needed was a proper real raw convo

abbieclaydon003 :

We all going through it rn

rylee_erin :

Almost two months now and I still feel like the day it happened

H_E_N_C_O24 :

I'm so sorry I know what that feels like.

Wesleyhabes :

Tell her that

IVY🦋 :

Yeah but he didn’t want that so 🤷🏽‍♀️

şenay🌹 :

can’t make someone care if they don’t tho fr

JB :

We lose them for a reason, because they wasnt actually our person.

Sandra :

literally me rn. Sitting here on the couch in the dark with a bucket because nothing will stay down

Daniel_alk_072 :

Poppy The Golden Retriever :

stuck in the middle of this right now

waitingfordeath :

this is me today

StressDabbler :

Marisha Smart :

A month and a half later and I’m still feeling it💔

TJ :

the problem is, they have to want and see this too

Shawn.L5P :

it's been 2 months.. I'm still practicing what I would've said & also done differently to still be hers

Britt :

Currently going through this, even though I’m struggling to believe it myself at the moment I can tell you we lose them because it’s protection 🤍

Casper Verhoef :

∞ :

They wasn’t your person

Danny Twigg525 :

All we needed was for them to want that too.

ashley_art_666 :

Mhm… just lost him… idk how much longer I can stay around…