@themazeez: She’s not your therapist. She’s not your accountability partner. She’s not the reason you’ll finally get your life together. Muslim men are out here proposing with broken salah, active addictions, unhealed trauma, zero structure, and a bride price they borrowed. Then wonder why the marriage is falling apart. You cannot pour from an empty cup. And you cannot lead a home you are not ready to carry. Before you ask for her hand — fix your salah. Kill your addictions. Heal what hurt you. Learn the deen. Build something. Study what marriage actually demands of a man. Because she deserves a husband. Not a project she signed up to fix. Do the work. #muslimmen #islamicmarriage #muslimtiktok #islamicadvice #brothersofislam