Best advice I heard is I don’t need to make any permanent decisions. As long as I am ok around him and able to enjoy his companionship then I can stay if it starts to feel off or wrong to me I can walk
2026-06-02 02:43:17
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spence :
sometimes i feel like my feelings are dramatic cuz it was emotional cheating and not physical and no one talks about that but it still hurts the same
2026-06-02 16:20:41
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𝕻 :
for me personally its not even abt her, its abt everyone around me clowning me and judging me for wanting to forgive her after she showed genuine regret.
2026-06-03 01:41:55
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Leo B :
if it meant nothing then what we had meant less
2026-06-02 08:30:18
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194734959495l :
I forgave & then kept thinking, “how long until he feels comfortable doing it again….5 years, 10 years, 15?” And I realized I couldn’t answer that and trust the answer. So I left and 6 years later met my soulmate 💕
2026-06-25 22:24:24
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Julie Silva :
Me me in destroyed !!! It’s been over a year , I think of it every single day , I wake thinkin of her , she lives in my head now and the fact he betrayed me so easily and came home every day acting like all was well , meanwhile having another life and love outside of our home
2026-06-02 13:16:56
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🌻dani🌻 :
My fiancée kissed someone else in a moment of selfish impulse due to poor mental health and coping with alcohol, it doesn’t excuse it but he’s genuinely spent every day since making up for this mistake and never blaming anyone but himself. Forgiveness is so hard, but I love him and I believe in working through it together then sacrificing a six year committed relationship over one stupid mistake.
2026-06-03 11:59:03
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tšhego☁️ :
It also forces you to interchange between attachment styles. You go from being secure to anxious and eventually avoidant.
2026-06-03 01:54:23
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🦋Blue~Eyed~Beauty🦋 :
What if he claims he don’t even know why he did it
2026-06-02 23:10:54
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Honey :
Good person will never cheat
2026-06-02 13:32:18
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BoriFinds :
Eventually…you truly just have to leave.
2026-06-03 18:35:38
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leecm8 :
not a good person if they cheated and if they cheated do not stay end the relationship you may still love them but they never loved you
2026-06-02 15:35:28
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 :
Stayed for 7 years after
2026-06-02 12:14:02
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user5440867284409 :
You can forgive but you will never forget. Thats the brutal truth. Everyday life and shows you watch will remind you. Never ends
2026-06-02 23:55:31
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Lynmarro6💙 :
Mine was emotional not physical but I think it almost hurts worse especially when he so easily cut her off but so easily kept her until I found out.
2026-06-03 17:50:36
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F :
Idk man it’s fucked my spirit completely I don’t feel the same
2026-07-29 12:56:38
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isla.kove :
It happened two years ago to a bad 🌽 addiction. like disgusting one. I found out at 32 weeks pregnant on the day of my baby shower. apparently he was like this before he met me for years. It’s not just the addiction it was the gaslighting, narcissistic, the lies. The amount of effort and dedication he went through to go behind my back and do this. Like I said this happened two years ago and I still can’t get over it. I still never fully trust him. It sucks because he’s such an amazing husband and dad. But I feel such a huge disconnection. I’m pregnant again and I’m really scared.
2026-07-16 18:23:30
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₉⁹₉luv :
“You can forgive someone but still grieve what their choices cost you” 🥀💔
2026-07-01 18:53:54
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user1789827617415 :
Always leave. You can forgive and leave. Forgiveness is about not holding on the the hurt.
2026-06-02 15:50:03
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denver😬native44 :
Once trust is gone it will never be the same.
2026-06-25 16:12:15
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rue :
What I've learned about betrayal is that it isn't exclusive to having romantic interaction with someone else, it's when someones sense of safety is jeopardize in any and every aspect, and the person who broke trust is responsible for building it back and accepting and living with the consequences of the wrong act that led to the whole situation even if it doesn't lead to full repair..
2026-06-02 22:27:29
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桃花 ٠ ࣪⭑ :
i'm still so confused. i thought we had a good relationship. he was good to me, still is. but he had been cheating in secret for our entire relationship, even in the early stages. he says he wants to stay and he has always loved me. but does someone who loves a person knowingly cheat for 2 years? his excuse was, and i quote, "i did it because i wanted you to be angry about it and leave me because you deserve better."
i am still so hurt and i am grieving not only who i used to be but what i thought i had because my reality was shattered. what do i do?
2026-06-29 16:46:14
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