thealecjames
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top grafta ☠️ :
problem is my avoidant believes that asking for the simplest behavioural adjustments is trying to change who he fundamentally is, so he simply refuses 🫠
2026-06-07 23:37:59
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lenka🇨🇿 :
our 5 year long relationship ended because of this dynamic. we were very young when whe started dating and soon fell into these hurtful repeating patterns. one day he just decided that our relationship isnt worth it anymore and discarded me. after 2 months he reached out full of pain and wanted to reconnect and just continue our relationship but i couldnt. the hurt was too big. after 4 months i reached out and we started talking.. we did all the emotional deeptalk we should have done while still being in the relationship. now weve been talking for 1 month already and he still isnt sure about a new start. he says he is too scared that we are gonna fall into that same cycle of patterns. how much more time am i supposed to give him? we talked everything through there is literally nothing left to talk about, we apologised, we forgave, we worked through the dynamic. and we both agree on everything. its just him and his fears now. im really suffering because of his indecisivenes. his main argument is “maybe were just not meant to be together, maybe we both deserve a new start with someone new”… i dont agree with this. i will always fight for our love. and he would rather give up than to fight.
2026-06-09 07:11:43
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🇧🇷✞ :
They dont want it to be saved
2026-06-21 21:56:07
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Atenazes. :
Maybe it sounds weird, but you are so well spoken, english is not my first language and I just love your choice of words
2026-06-09 05:13:25
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Shana :
We aren’t talking now, but if they said their feelings aren’t the same can it still be saved or no?
2026-07-12 19:11:20
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Priya Aghera :
This was insightful, I won’t try to change others behavior but will work on myself to be better for myself 💞🙏💞
2026-07-07 19:19:20
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Mamarocca :
What to do when he comes back
2026-06-24 21:06:55
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ancejolanta :
The issue is avoidants never want to work on relationships
2026-06-02 16:32:25
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