@thesonjaday: My biggest flex? Staying single until my kids finished high school. Not because I don’t want love. I do. But after the divorce, after a couple of relationships that started beautiful and turned into chaos — I wasn’t willing to shuffle my kids between households again. They were already sharing enough. They needed me present. So I chose that. Does it get lonely? Absolutely. This isn’t a badge of honor. It’s just a choice I made with my whole chest and zero regrets. If you feel like you’re failing because you don’t have a partner — you’re not. Knowing what you won’t settle for isn’t closing a door. It’s keeping the right one open. And to my kids — you’re worth every single second to me. I didn’t sacrifice anything. I won the lottery of time with you.

Mike O'Leary :

FatBob :

I stayed married until my kids finished high school We are not the same

Hey Andre :

My biggest flex is never having any kids.

Kalbar_Cards :

This is not the flex you think it is.

CBK :

Father here. I did the same. Worked out great for everyone.

danielwelcher1 :

Im single because i must be ugly and not interesting enough.

Scott :

Why?? You could have help.

Official.NedReyerson :

Maybe forever?

Nicebuilder :

staying single forever 🙏

taketwo :

prepare for the emotional crash and good luck!

Doug Grellner :

Good thinking!💖💖💖

Billyjoe :

Same

Duke Togo :

Same... I got 5 more years to go! 🤣

kdog19842 :

all depends on the situation folks. no judgements

jamieharing347 :

& now it’s to late

Todd :

impressive

pizaboy10 :

same

Lakefront :

My biggest flex staying single in retirement so I can travel the world current in Las Vegas for 15 days❤️❤️

MMCC1842 :

Beautiful

doggy :

why

rcksubs :

Your amazing!!

gregbrasher976 :

I did as well. Now they are in their mid to late 20’s & I just can’t force myself to start dating. I’m use to being single & it has its pro’s & cons.

jamessparacino :

yep

midwest :

thats an issue that makes no sense

goodvibesgreatsoul :

huge flex