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amo.lovess :
“Youre so lucky you don’t have to deal with relationship drama” omg yea i’m so lucky! I’ll probably never find someone who wants to be with me bc I don’t feel romance or sexuality so I’ll end up alone, yay!!
2026-06-03 14:40:53
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And please, I need people to stop using "asexual" as if it were "hyposexual," they are different terms, trauma can make you hyposexual but not asexual (in fact you can be both at the same time since they do not relate to each other)
2026-06-03 13:10:59
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EtherealPanda :
also a reminder that having kinks and desires does not invalidate you being ace!
2026-06-03 17:09:30
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Ari ᖭི༏ᖫྀ :
i don’t think people realize how isolating being aroace is. everyone has a person. you’re never anyone’s first choice or their family. their family, their person, their world is their partner and kids. not you. you see everyone you love less as you age. all they wanna talk about is their partner and ultimately have no interest in you anymore because you’re on different levels of life now. they move on and you’re still stuck there.
2026-06-04 18:02:39
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:-) :
“done with dating im going asexual” 💔💔 you can’t choose
2026-06-03 23:30:30
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Girl bye :
I don’t understand, I don’t feel the need to participate in sexual things at all. But I’m constantly thinking about it, I’m reading about it, and yeah I have things ig that make me feel something but I don’t think I can even give my partner the responses she wants during intercourse. I also feel very little attraction, I used to think something was wrong with me
2026-06-04 14:16:04
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monstercupcake15 :
Came out to my family without actually using the word asexual and basically got told, "Well, if your husband wants it you have to do it." As if I'd marry anyone who wouldn't respect my boundaries??? I'd rather be alone than force myself to do THAT 😭
2026-06-03 18:17:32
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rowan 🍃 :
reminder that aroace is also a spectrum!! not all ace’s are repulsed by sex, and the same goes for aros and relationships. personally i’m aroace (no desire/don’t want to date) but i do feel a type of attraction to very close friends! Not romantic, but not entirely platonic either.
2026-06-04 00:31:32
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joan :
people acting like aro/ace people don't experience any form of oppression in these comments is insane. asexual people are victims of 'corrective rape' and sexual assault too. we experience constantly being told we aren't part of the community, that we haven't found the right person, that we'll grow out of it, that it's not real, etc. constant invalidation. it's so ridiculous.
2026-06-04 12:52:44
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𝐃𝐚𝐧𝐢.🌷 :
someone said i was not asexual cause i’ve had sex before. well, if only that shit would’ve been MY CHOICE!
2026-06-05 00:44:20
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Sprinkles :
I love using "in this economy????" to point out that being aro/ace isnt a choice. it sounds like a joke but its legit lol why would I actively choose to be a single income solo household
2026-06-03 02:43:32
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teia 🏳️⚧️🐝 :
the clearest way i know we're (aces) queer is bc jkr tweets about us
2026-06-04 19:26:27
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beastzai's-sexy-toehairxx :
so im lowk confused i dont wanna use it wrong..i find guys hot and a realationship sounds nice but also suffocating..the idea of any sx really grosses me out like i dont see the appeal it souns stressful sweaty and embarassing (TO ME ANYONE ELSE CAN DO WHAT THEY LIKE) and then also if i have a crush i loose intrest the moment they like me back so ive like never been in a relationship or done anything..so am i just immature or what pls someone help so i stop sounding stupid.😭😭
2026-06-10 08:07:20
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∘🚀Rocket🥽✜ :
I hate it when people think that being aroace is just "not having a crush".Aroace people didn't choose to be like this.Its not a phase
2026-06-05 10:05:27
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anellej :
ace here. still have urges, i can be curious abt it, but i don't wanna do it myself. and not every ace has to be sex-repulsed!
2026-06-05 03:29:59
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AloraAnemoia𓃢¹⁰⁰⁹ :
can I ask? I don't really know what I am. I find everyone attractive yet I don't see myself having any relationship with anyone. It's like this, I see a human person and I'll be like " ooh they're attractive" and imagine what it's like to be in a relationship with them but I'm not their partner, it's like a third person point of view. But then I cycle back to wanting to be in a relationship (btw I've never been in a relationship since birth)
2026-06-07 01:16:44
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ċęçėļıą᯾᯽ :
I also really dislike when people don’t bother to learn the difference between aro and ace, like someone can be aroace but someone can also be ace but not aro 💔
2026-06-08 09:35:23
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Squinky🏳️⚧️🍉 :
Honestly the thing that helped me understand aroace and made me realize I fall on the aromantic spectrum myself was having a friend who is aroace and going and researching microlabels, in my head I knew asexual and aromantic were spectrums but seeing all the microlabels and looking into them and people experiences really helped me put it into perspective just how vast the spectrum is and now not every ace and/or aro person are alike!
2026-06-02 20:58:24
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daliabermudez77 :
"Es que no lo intentas y asi" ¿saben lo difícil que es vivir en una cultura que alaba el amor romántico, donde todos forman parejas y tu quedas al margen de todo? Por años lo intente pero nunca me sentí bien y ni siquiera entendía porque y es porque la asexualidad y el arromanticismo son tan poco comentados a menos que sea con tonos de burla y extrañeza
2026-06-06 15:52:17
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trisky :
Like, I learned people have genuine physical reactions to the people theyre attracted to and its just like… what? I grew up believing all that was just exaggeration bc I have never once felt attraction. It does not compute in my brain that peoples bodies react to who theyre attracted to. Sure I get desires and all that, but its never been about or centered around another person. The closest ive come to it is either fictional characters or admitting a conventionally attractive person is hot bc thats what society has told me is hot.
2026-06-06 04:57:19
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SaraRocha :
I'm a lesbian. I don't hate the aces, aros and aroaces tbh, but It doesn't make sense to me to have aroace people included in pride for me... ace people and aro people still totally make sense but. Are aroace people being kicked out because of who they are? are their rights being denied? are they being killed because of this? If my family find out I have a gf they'll turn their backs on me, but If I tell them I don't want a relationship or sexual life, they will say it's better than being gay. (that's what I heard in church when I thought I was asexual bth)
2026-06-04 04:00:21
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lars96 :
I'm missing out on a fundemental human experience because I don't want to have sx
2026-06-04 00:31:00
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Drendri :
Asexuality is such a... complex thing, at least to me personally. It's an absent of a thing everyone have. The lack of any desire at all, or aversion to it, I have no idea if mine is innate or because I was sick and malnourished all my life? Was it trauma? A lot of people will say it isn't, but I at the moment(at this moment) doesn't really know. It's an absent, so will it be present one day? I like the 'idea' of sex just as much as I like the idea of riding a dragon, which is a lot. And I am kinda left longing? Not to mention the libido is there, adding to the confusion. It's a lonely experience, I don't even know if I could call myself asexual
2026-06-05 05:55:58
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ddxpura :
if i could change i would. being aroace has traumatized me, ruined my life, and any chance at love. i know i will never be able to feel love like my peers do. i know i will die without a partner. i know everyone looks at me with disgust bc im unable to feel what they do.
2026-06-05 01:36:10
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🦇《 Shadow 》🦇 :
I have a question, I'm PRETTY sure I'm aro but idk if ace too (aegosexual specifically). I can't stand the idea of someone touching me even in non-sexual ways but I suspect that stemmed from trauma, I read that have a different name but the aegosexual label fits me so well, I'm confused 😭
2026-06-07 04:28:42
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