@melhamlett: Wizard Liz and hot chef lady were both not nice to people trying to warn them and I get it. But now we are supposed to ignore that harm of calling us bitter or jealous and just support and sympathize. It’s so hard to watch a woman or anyone go so hard for a relationship that seems not great! #wizardliz #decentermen #dating #pickme #breakup @Melanie Hamlett
I think more than anything, women want to see whether creators like Wizard Liz and the Hot Chef Lady not only take accountability for their role in what happened, but also demonstrate real growth afterward. Many of us have watched friends and family repeat the same painful cycles, often hurting not only themselves but also their loved ones and even previous partners who were harmed by the same person. At a certain point, people become less concerned with the mistake itself and more interested in whether anything was actually learned from it. Accountability matters, but growth is what shows the lesson stuck.
2026-06-02 18:03:53
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365NapGirl :
But they had been together 9 months!
2026-06-04 01:10:26
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KarentEven :
Lizard Wiz gets me every time 😂😂💐
2026-06-02 17:43:14
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fittedprof :
Lizard Wiz has me on the floor 😂😂😂
2026-06-02 23:34:42
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E :
I’m sorry, but “Lizard Wiz” took me out 😂😂
2026-06-02 21:18:47
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MyFriendsCallMeDazzy :
who is we?
2026-06-02 23:04:12
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Lacy Epstein :
Happy to see your pup in the background!
2026-06-03 03:15:01
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Kes :
Did I miss something with Hot Chef Lady?
2026-06-02 23:12:01
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SJ :
You’re so correct about people projecting on to them. I hadn’t thought about it that way
2026-06-02 17:08:40
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annavandis :
Love this thank you
2026-06-03 01:35:37
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abaetol :
She’s said everything except “I projected onto a person I knew for a few days”. I get it, in that I also thought I knew someone in three months. But now I tell women you cannot know who a person is in that short time. I have a family member who also says she got tricked 20 years in, but there had been signs and red flags from the first two weeks and she didn’t want to hear it from us. The lack of self reflection and deflection to “I just love deeply” is dangerous.
2026-06-02 19:03:58
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Juul :
Oh man if I was humiliated by my partner that I defended endlessly online I might fall off the face of earth. I could imagine being too ashamed and insecure to admit that I was wrong. Like salt on the wound. That’s tough. I’m glad I at least listen sometimes….
2026-06-02 17:19:29
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AliyahHoodoo :
Right! They call you a hater for looking out 😭😭😭
2026-06-02 17:08:50
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★✭𝕽𝒪¢ᛕ𝓨✭★ :
My last ex did not like that I wasn’t ‘head over heels in love’ by the way he would slip that phrase into conversation to things like me saying, “you know what I realised?” and this is exactly why I held back! I’ve made that mistake in the past of parading a man like he’s the best thing since sliced bread to later discover he’s like all the others - just in different font. I was much more logical and guarded with this relationship because, you know, when you’ve been burned a few times you change the way you handle things, and needless to say glad I was!
2026-06-02 21:28:34
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Danielle Kramer, LLC :
she got love bombed - and somehow she didnt see it???? she said he had named their kids by date 3 and said I love you within days. you'll never ever catch me online bragging about a man
2026-06-03 22:17:59
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Goonies🆘🇺🇸 :
I’m so grateful I have no clue who these people are.
2026-06-03 15:48:47
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j :
how is calling a woman a B not just misgnostic
2026-06-03 16:02:41
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mahirahasanović :
I can't get over what she did to Abby unless she addresses it
2026-06-03 07:16:52
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KadyRoxz :
Still watching but to be fair about the whole concept of being bitchy when people say slow down… I posted that someone I was dating was very considerate and more thoughtful than anyone I’ve recently dating and I got 100 replies saying “girl be careful! It’s a trick!” Like you literally can’t share a positive experience without a pile on
2026-06-03 21:30:13
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Lexughhh :
This is how I was when I was 20 😭 I will always take other women's opinions about my partner to heart now
2026-06-03 15:26:29
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The Mint house :
👏👏👏exactly
2026-06-02 17:05:03
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YT: Level Up Single Mom :
The way this applies to so many things right now😂 🎯
2026-06-02 23:10:43
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🇵🇸ittybittylittleboy :
😁😁😁
2026-06-03 14:36:15
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Alex :
👏👏👏
2026-06-02 18:40:03
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