@filmedbyerica: Give the APPROPRIATE amount of affection and let things grow over time #harshsisteradvice

AJ🖤 :

Well that suck cause I am a aromantic

Luke Park :

Just call me Ted Mosby 🤷🏻‍♂️

Boobabeba :

Unfortunately it all stems from deep insecurity and trauma

Kevin :

I hate that I needed to hear this

Kyle :

You guys are getting dates?

Miles :

How do I even get them to respond when I send the first message?

the one and only Solly :

ohh

Mentilman :

I don’t even get a first date, how am i supposed to know if i am doing something wrong?

RobRealistic :

I need to get to the date 1st

Sean :

can I get advice on why this girl told me she needed to heal before a relationship but a month later is dating one of my friends

tio.eli99 :

michael.bell9227 :

Okay but like, what if it’s one weekend after 9 years of not seeing each other since we broke up? 😂

Mr. Church :

I’m not planning futures with anyone

user4112893309910 :

Wait you guys are waiting until after the first date before planning your future with her?

Zach (Getter of Buckets) :

Yeah…I’ve done this

Smokey :

Never got big sister advice, watching these videos gave me the answers to problems I needed advice on. Thank you

ryan.h545 :

Yes but I honestly don’t know why I can’t seem to help it

jfern.official :

I feel called out, and I’m working on it 😅

IvanGin3D :

This one hit too hard.

pickle :

fax should've seen this sooner

Eric :

I have been guilty of this.

Jon Andrews :

True

MattyjoeMakes :

this is me

Lionel Martinez🎧 :

Getting to know them first is all i try to do but they immediately start talking relationship, kids, or basically jumping the gun! All I say is let’s get to know each other first and go from there. They didn’t like the my answers because it wasn’t on there TERMS! Then weeks later you see them talking to someone else or in a relationship with someone else! 🤷‍♂️Blows my mind how they tell you one thing then weeks later there already with someone else.