Kina Wolfenstein
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Tuesday 02 June 2026 23:38:00 GMT
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tegan :
in my adulthood, my parents loved to talk about how "easy" I was, how I practically raised myself. I used to be so proud until it occurred to me how incredibly sad that is
2026-06-04 05:18:12
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HR Explained :
And being taken care of is not the same as being nurtured.
2026-06-03 13:25:29
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ZukotheSheltie🦞🐶🐾 :
I get supremely annoyed with needy people bc I was never allowed to be needy or have needs
2026-06-04 16:02:09
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vic :
I used to wish I suffered physical abuse to justify how I felt as a kid. I wished there had been scars to show so that someone would believe me and see my hurt.
2026-06-03 11:34:08
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merin25 :
I used to fantasize about getting injured and spending time in the hospital so that people would pay attention to me and act like they actually cared about me.
2026-06-09 19:17:37
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Amanda J :
I disassociated most of my childhood.
2026-06-03 13:29:01
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s :
I don’t know how to explain to people that my mom and dad were there everyday, in the same house, but I had no stability and no emotional support
2026-06-03 11:28:35
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ffrienddzz :
There is NO FAMILY, only a bunch of people living in a house
2026-06-04 08:03:07
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Summer :
emotional neglect is my family's intergenerational trauma - on both sides
2026-06-03 12:03:40
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LegacyEmma :
I have lived in maladaptive daydreams for over 20 years. I had no one to turn to for having my emotional needs met, so I created worlds where I did. I struggle with hyper independence to this day, even now having a loving husband and friends who care about me, I would rather retreat to my inner world than “burden” them with my life, bc I essentially learned that my life *is* a burden throughout my childhood.
2026-06-03 19:37:19
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Jamie_Michealle🇨🇦 :
I feel anxiety when someone actually focuses attention on me, like in any real way. Like it is safer to be invisible or low key ignored. I am fine speaking with in a group or even public speaking but being actually "seen" is terrifying.
2026-06-04 09:19:41
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Rachel Funk :
My best friend was murd3red when I was 14. My Mom tried to send me to school the very next day, because she couldn't handle me crying all day. It didn't go well. Now I have an avoidant husband who runs away any time I'm crying, and doesn't have the capacity to comfort me.
2026-06-03 03:30:58
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꧁۞ ⁿᵉʸᵐᵃʳ۞꧂ :
I want you to take this comment as hope and a sign to begin your healing journey. That “why me” feeling is like a rot in your body pulling you down and thinking there is no way out. Strongly recommend reading Healing Isn’t Pretty by Mira Hartson.
2026-06-04 15:15:04
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Danielle Regan :
Can we have a series on emotional neglect? This really resonated
2026-06-03 03:13:32
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The Pleasure Witch✨🍉 :
It legit gave me brain damage and severe CPTSD. My mom who is so emotionally inept has zero concept of why I’m so damaged.
2026-06-03 03:55:46
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Bethie :
“An experience where no one ever joins them in their inner world” 🤯 ok i get it now
2026-06-05 05:00:45
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Ace_n_Beenz :
I spent my days imagining another reality. As an adult struggling with limerance and any type or real deep connections.
2026-06-03 13:39:44
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ttt5975 :
Emotional neglect also doesn't need to be intentional in nature - as a parent you can love your kids to death and not mean them any harm, while still failing to show up for them emotionally. I think a lot of people are unaware of that.
2026-07-28 07:51:55
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Danielle Nichole 🌞 :
“But You had clothes, food, and a roof”
2026-06-19 08:15:01
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Marg :
I’m terrified of being perceived, I would escape into books & TV, & dealt with most things alone
2026-06-04 21:43:00
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gGmarie_1213 :
The crushing need for emotional closeness, but the inability to accept it.
2026-07-22 14:28:40
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Asterayme :
nobody takes emotional abuse and neglect seriously, I was stunted due to my upbringing and im 25 learning how to be a person :( my life is solitary and months can pass by in a blink, I struggle to connect with people. Its incredibly and completely traumatic
2026-06-04 20:10:39
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Gabs 💕 :
let’s expand…emotional neglect in the sense of having to put ur parent emotional instability before your own needs
2026-06-13 14:20:10
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Anja Malisic :
If you don’t feel safe as a child … you will never feel safe with anyone as an adult
2026-06-03 21:25:27
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Anastasia Beaverhousen :
Its like trying to build a house on quicksand. When you have no internal infrastructure to experience joy, connection, emotional intelligence, self soothing skills or vulnerability, it’s kind of a disaster when you suddenly get the chance to experience connection and joy but can’t and everything just constantly skips through your fingers.
2026-06-03 04:03:55
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