@lifeinfocuswithsuttida: It’s not about whether they won’t or they can’t or if they could they would. The outcome is the same. So decide what you’re gonna do about it. #personalgrowth #friends #HealingJourney #relationships #selfrespect
I was standing on that curb waiting for 2 years. I eventually realized it’s time to move on.
2026-07-23 12:17:12
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Christopher 🌀✨ :
I would not wish dating a dismissive avoidant on my worst enemy.
2026-07-24 13:38:09
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Sarah E :
your posts are incredible. They really are.
2026-06-03 00:49:08
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Amy Talbert Hartwig :
Gotta stop using the word “capacity”. The word is SKILLS.
2026-07-26 14:00:32
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No Face No Case :
My heart is big enough that I could handle him not having the capacity, but once I realized he didn't want to I left and never looked back.
2026-06-03 11:36:23
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G world :
“Meet reality, and move on”. WOW, thank you.
2026-06-04 12:46:45
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kathleenmullin :
So true Painful but true
2026-06-30 00:35:54
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R.S.R.S. :
that helps a lot. assess the outcome. there is a tendency in close relationships to focus on the reason someone doesn't show up. I still do this. but it's simpler to assess the outcome 🙏
2026-06-03 02:00:34
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Amy :
This really hit me in a way that no other explanation has and I thank you for it.
2026-06-04 18:15:49
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Brit 🇬🇧 Trails :
Right exactly trust the pattern not the person
2026-06-03 22:18:12
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Rox ✨ :
“You build a case for their incapacity because it hurts less than believing they could, but didn’t” 😳😭💔
2026-06-05 21:08:27
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WaterFlower Makeup Artist 🎨🖌 :
tough love
2026-07-08 03:04:40
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Lola @ JoyRide :
Gurl! YES!
2026-07-10 23:58:58
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Nolan Gustine :
damn right
2026-07-21 16:14:32
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Kat Mar :
Excellent
2026-06-04 04:36:41
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JRIOZ :
great video
2026-06-05 00:54:53
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MastrMynd :
💜💜💜 #mastrmynd
2026-06-20 05:00:05
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Brooklyn Royalty :
Great point
2026-06-04 13:21:09
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PetiteManse :
Huge. Thank you
2026-06-04 00:03:46
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ranny :
You are hired. Your videos have literally been the answers i had been searching for all along within a disappointing friendship dynamic. Trusting my heart is self love. I knew the answers all along I just couldn’t believe it happened twice two decades apart! Patterns don’t lie. The fact that she didn’t grow after all of that time floors me.
2026-06-04 10:11:13
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Phil :
You’ve been reading my journal again. Dang.
2026-06-03 01:54:53
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iamZOG :
This is gold !! 💯
2026-06-04 11:05:16
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Loving poems✍️♥️ :
Everyone does what they want to do, there is no can’t, it’s won’t bc they really don’t want to
2026-06-12 17:44:43
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Sioux Queen :
Yes.
2026-06-03 12:05:35
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