@erikagrundon: when the avoidant doesn’t consider your feelings #avoidantattachmentstyle

Ren 💫 :

I think avoidants are not hurting you intentionally for the sake of hurting you they're doing things to save themselves which requires immense amount of compassion and empathy

JT :

They can do what they want, but atleast communicate. Most just do it without saying anything

Tarek Abdallah :

It’s exhausting to have to constantly struggle with being seen and considered.

pewdylan :

Yeah she was my whole world and I was just a side character basically

Me_need_coffeeeee :

Why do your needs take precedence over mine?

kelsey lee :

He said he was just hoping I’d get used to it bc “that’s how he is”…then decided he “couldn’t be who I needed”…

Magnacious :

This has been the worst pain ever. I never want to go through something like this again. Brought all my spark back just for them to leave once we got really close after 7 months. Just wish I had someone to talk to that understands. People who haven’t gone through something like this always say “they just didn’t like you”

Alejandro Castillo :

The big dilema about relationships whose needs are valid according to whom?...

Jhai Suhmone :

My boyfriend.. I’m so exhausted

tristansimon69 :

😒too familiar

BanAkin_LineWalker :

this after just vowing the opposite in front of all our friends and family

JessicaAnne :

This is triggering for me. I was constantly fighting to be seen and considered, and I was always last and got hurt.

Christopher 🌀✨ :

When they up and leave casually like they aren't even in the relationship.

granolakayla :

this is my marriage lol

Centurion :

You just LEAVE them.

spaceit999 :

I just stopped caring (mostly) works for me

L :

basingiorno :

How do you flip on the consideration switch

Toneya :

This is literally an everyday conversation I have.

philosophy.with.kesi :

Word for word

dibs :

Sent this one to him too :)

Suclicmadic :

So confused all the time

BRAVER_X :

Yeah five years of this conversation… finally stepping away ✌️💀from