@harmonybutcher: I was filming a vlog and then this happened. All 3 of my kids (2 yo toddler and 4 mo twins) starting crying and losing it at the same time. It’s so hard to settle and calm them all when I’m on my own. I only have 2 hands. And there’s 3 of them. It’s hard to know who to go to first. It’s hard to try and block out the other crying to focus on the one you’re settling. It’s hard to just sit and listening to all the crying. It’s so overstimulating and overwhelming. I wasn’t going to post this but I do think it’s important for parents to see the very imperfect & real side of parenting. It’s not always good routines, happy smiles and well-behaved kids. Sometimes it’s tears, screaming & heightened emotions (from everyone, including the adults) and that’s okay. It’s normal. Just incase no one has told you lately… You’re doing amazing ❤️
Harms you’re doing amazing sorry but I’d just start crying too
2026-06-03 10:42:31
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beckswats :
I have a toddler and twin newborns. And sometimes it is “who is crying the loudest”. Which sucks because they all need mom at times! 🥺😭
2026-06-03 03:55:18
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Steph Claire Smith :
You are incredible
2026-06-05 12:36:23
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user1565395717466 :
I can’t even imagine what Bathtime looks like in your home. Super mum!
2026-06-06 22:49:26
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Brooklyn Opetaia :
Love you
2026-06-03 03:14:42
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ella smith :
and here is the reason i'll never have kids 😁
2026-06-12 06:15:29
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Francesca Hung :
You’re incredible- I honestly don’t know how you do it!
2026-06-04 05:36:03
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Wyluxe Collaboration :
Hey! Collab? DM us
2026-06-05 16:08:45
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Mikayla :
You’re doing amazing!🫶🏼
2026-06-06 18:52:26
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CHELSEA WILLIAMSON :
You are something else girl!!! I find it hard with one ❤️you should be so proud xx
2026-06-03 09:03:02
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mrvzr83 :
I promise this helps! Get ear plugs, not to ignore cries (we should never ignore cries) but muffling the intensity of the sound is a game changer!! Just while you’re settling them. It lowers the intensity dramatically and calms you down which calms them down
2026-06-03 14:47:30
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JPKirikava :
You are doing amazing Mumma!!!!
2026-06-07 12:47:10
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ashybines :
Mumma that would be so tough sending you love 💕
2026-06-06 07:30:44
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alexandrasturmayr :
you‘re doing amazing!! thank you for sharing❤️
2026-06-18 21:31:45
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edenbristowe :
The strength and patience you have is incredible! You’re doing amazing 💛🥹
2026-06-04 00:13:44
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bonnyfosterr :
twin mums are something else 💕💕 you should be so proud
2026-06-05 12:58:32
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Bella :
You are incredible 💛
2026-06-08 06:10:41
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H O L L Y :
Mama you are doing the most ♥️♥️♥️
2026-06-05 00:17:02
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STAX. :
superwoman 🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷
2026-06-03 04:11:08
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Gem Gange | Triplet mum :
I know that feeling all too well. It really is impossible sometimes. All you can do is breathe through it. The mantra I say to my triplets “you are safe, you are loved and I’m doing the best that I can” 🥰
2026-06-03 11:03:13
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blinky :
You are doing an awesome job xx
2026-06-03 08:04:54
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Katie Bunton :
Ugh I felt for you in this moment ♥️even just with 2 crying at the same time I felt so overwhelmed and so guilty. You’re amazing mama
2026-06-03 11:34:17
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Bella :
You’re doing amazing mumma !! How lucky are they to have you!
2026-07-01 09:15:04
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a linga longa life :
I only have the twin part of this… you’re amazing.
2026-06-03 05:47:35
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acurmii :
A super women! 🤍
2026-06-03 02:36:58
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