@harmonybutcher: I was filming a vlog and then this happened. All 3 of my kids (2 yo toddler and 4 mo twins) starting crying and losing it at the same time. It’s so hard to settle and calm them all when I’m on my own. I only have 2 hands. And there’s 3 of them. It’s hard to know who to go to first. It’s hard to try and block out the other crying to focus on the one you’re settling. It’s hard to just sit and listening to all the crying. It’s so overstimulating and overwhelming. I wasn’t going to post this but I do think it’s important for parents to see the very imperfect & real side of parenting. It’s not always good routines, happy smiles and well-behaved kids. Sometimes it’s tears, screaming & heightened emotions (from everyone, including the adults) and that’s okay. It’s normal. Just incase no one has told you lately… You’re doing amazing ❤️

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jadetunchy
Jade Brycki :
Harms you’re doing amazing sorry but I’d just start crying too
2026-06-03 10:42:31
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beckswats
beckswats :
I have a toddler and twin newborns. And sometimes it is “who is crying the loudest”. Which sucks because they all need mom at times! 🥺😭
2026-06-03 03:55:18
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steph_claire_smith
Steph Claire Smith :
You are incredible
2026-06-05 12:36:23
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fancyfantale
user1565395717466 :
I can’t even imagine what Bathtime looks like in your home. Super mum!
2026-06-06 22:49:26
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brooklynopetaia
Brooklyn Opetaia :
Love you
2026-06-03 03:14:42
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smithyxe2
ella smith :
and here is the reason i'll never have kids 😁
2026-06-12 06:15:29
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francescahung
Francesca Hung :
You’re incredible- I honestly don’t know how you do it!
2026-06-04 05:36:03
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wyluxe_ambassador1
Wyluxe Collaboration :
Hey! Collab? DM us
2026-06-05 16:08:45
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mikaylabloom
Mikayla :
You’re doing amazing!🫶🏼
2026-06-06 18:52:26
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chelseawilliamson
CHELSEA WILLIAMSON :
You are something else girl!!! I find it hard with one ❤️you should be so proud xx
2026-06-03 09:03:02
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mrvzr83
mrvzr83 :
I promise this helps! Get ear plugs, not to ignore cries (we should never ignore cries) but muffling the intensity of the sound is a game changer!! Just while you’re settling them. It lowers the intensity dramatically and calms you down which calms them down
2026-06-03 14:47:30
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jpkirikava
JPKirikava :
You are doing amazing Mumma!!!!
2026-06-07 12:47:10
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ashybines
ashybines :
Mumma that would be so tough sending you love 💕
2026-06-06 07:30:44
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alexandrasturmayr
alexandrasturmayr :
you‘re doing amazing!! thank you for sharing❤️
2026-06-18 21:31:45
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eden.bristowe
edenbristowe :
The strength and patience you have is incredible! You’re doing amazing 💛🥹
2026-06-04 00:13:44
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bonnyfosterr
bonnyfosterr :
twin mums are something else 💕💕 you should be so proud
2026-06-05 12:58:32
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user97255790100966
Bella :
You are incredible 💛
2026-06-08 06:10:41
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hollypck
H O L L Y :
Mama you are doing the most ♥️♥️♥️
2026-06-05 00:17:02
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staxofficial_
STAX. :
superwoman 🩷🩷🩷🩷🩷
2026-06-03 04:11:08
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gemgange
Gem Gange | Triplet mum :
I know that feeling all too well. It really is impossible sometimes. All you can do is breathe through it. The mantra I say to my triplets “you are safe, you are loved and I’m doing the best that I can” 🥰
2026-06-03 11:03:13
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blinky1342
blinky :
You are doing an awesome job xx
2026-06-03 08:04:54
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ktbunton
Katie Bunton :
Ugh I felt for you in this moment ♥️even just with 2 crying at the same time I felt so overwhelmed and so guilty. You’re amazing mama
2026-06-03 11:34:17
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freds_mummy
Bella :
You’re doing amazing mumma !! How lucky are they to have you!
2026-07-01 09:15:04
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a.linga.longa.life
a linga longa life :
I only have the twin part of this… you’re amazing.
2026-06-03 05:47:35
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acurmii
acurmii :
A super women! 🤍
2026-06-03 02:36:58
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