@sparklewithlizzy: The more you heal, the meaner you get. Along with wiser, calmer, and hopefully happier. #mindset #boundaries #relationships #midlifewomen #genxwomen

Lucycuse :

Also, the more you heal the more you disappear from situations

fre2bme62 :

Not true!! You don’t become mean, you establish boundaries and not everybody will like it!! This doesn’t make you mean at all, it makes you protective of your soul. 🥰

Anna :

OMG! I thought this was just me!!

Kim Weaver288 :

Not mean, just setting boundaries

Stacey Spencer :

Meaner=boundaries

SarahTonin24/7😍 :

People will always be quick to say “you’ve changed a whole lot” when no, you’ve actually realized a whole lot. There’s a difference 😉

CoastalOOTDwithTina🌊👗🧜‍♀️🦞 :

I am an over explainer and a people pleaser. I'm working on it.

heatherbuckreis :

Yes I’m realizing this it’s true!!!

Chef Tonya LLC :

Im sitting right there in life right now.... A medical scare/suffering will kind of put whats most important into perspective.... YOU! and those who truly support you without making you work hard for the connection.

WriterRiderDreamer :

I just don’t care anymore

artsybitch :

Yes, I started setting my boundaries and changed my standards to prioritize myself

iseeyouispy :

This really brings light to me. I’m so happy I came across this video

Midlife By Jae :

I completely agree with you!🌿

terry :

yeah, accordingly to other people l got mean when I started upholding my boundaries .

Michelle from Mewl 👶 :

Going through perimenopause, I just don’t have the energy or give a 💩

Vikki Williamson :

yep

inhermitmodefortheseason :

Christina :

I am a meanie

user1736349458110 :

amen 🙏 😂

مايا :

This is true, im changing

andrewhenryjacobs :

Not true. The more you heal the more your kindness grows, your boundaries are clear, and those who finish your peace are no longer included but it’s not mean.

Mel :

Facts. 😎

sofie Doris :

Amen 👌

Realivewire :

exactly

PSAV :

Healing also requires one to take accountability