@un.shaped: One of the strangest things about getting older is realizing how much of your life can end up organized around avoiding disappointing other people. You say yes because it's easier. You say yes because you've already said yes before. You say yes because changing your mind feels uncomfortable. Then one day you realize you've become very good at showing up for things you never really wanted. Saying no isn't selfish. Sometimes it's the fastest way to hear what you actually want. Even if you don't know what that is yet. The first release of 200 Things To Do Alone is a limited batch of 200 copies and drops this Sunday. Link in bio to get early access before the public release. #200thingstodoalone #bookrelease