@thepottymouthguru: Not every son with mother and father wounds becomes the responsible overfunctioner. Some become detached. Some become angry. Some become chameleons. Some become wildly successful while quietly struggling with intimacy. Because childhood adaptation isn't one-size-fits-all. One son learns: 👉 If I perform, I'll be loved. Another learns: 👉 If I don't need anyone, I can't be hurt. Another learns: 👉 If I keep everyone happy, I'll stay safe. Another learns: 👉 If I stay guarded, nobody can disappoint me. Different adaptations. Same goal. Survival. That's why two siblings can grow up in the same house and develop completely different coping strategies. The question isn't: 👉 What kind of child were you? The question is: 👉 What kind of adult did that child have to become to survive? DM me IMPACT if you're starting to recognize your adaptation. ❤️🤟🏻🌿 #unfuckyourself #thepottymouthguru #attachmentstyles #motherwound #fatherwound
I've seen both videos within 10 minutes... it's fine I'm gonna spiral a bit
2026-06-04 14:59:41
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LeothePoet :
I have DID. As a system, I think some of these map to personas. I’ve watched some of your other videos, your content is great
2026-06-25 20:42:28
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Vickma :
wtf is romance going to get you in this economy?
2026-06-14 20:29:18
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Caveman :
This is me and my brother we have literally moved through every one of these archetypes through the years. I thought it was growing in life. Fuck me running 🤣🤣🤣 same wounds different bandages. I give up I’ll stop at this one.
2026-06-04 22:50:07
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Chance Michael :
Hey I don’t like how right you are, I’m a chameleon son. Got diagnosed with cptsd about 5 years ago, this shit hurt being seen so candidly
2026-06-12 02:57:36
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Kountry Karibb :
Who keeps sending you to my fyp😭😭😭
2026-06-06 04:12:28
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Atom :
im all 5. what do I win? 🫠
2026-06-06 10:29:21
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David Wren :
I knew I was messed up, but I didn’t expect to be this level of messed up. I have felt confused about why I am the way I am all my life. It’s only just now beginning to take shape 😞
2026-06-03 21:36:40
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j.j.borle 🇨🇦 :
im an over-achieving Chameleon!
cool!
2026-06-17 06:09:11
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Issie :
Oh, i just had to scroll down again to get the second piece yipee.. ´˘`"
Guess which system has all of these in different ratios and layerss hahaha these guys
Oh except the successful, and responsible one.. I barely get by and noone relies on me, even as much I wish I could for them
2026-06-18 02:01:04
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@TheRealJoeyDraco :
4 of them are me… I’m falling apart
2026-06-03 21:57:01
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Westy :
Combination of 1, 2 and 3…. Great
2026-06-15 02:41:25
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Jumoskiblue :
it took me forever to actually get out of this mindset and I'm still getting out of it -Detached Son
2026-06-09 17:50:30
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🧿GoldenChild🪬 :
perfect 5/5 look at me being great 🤣
2026-06-13 16:19:32
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Tough :
This is gonna sound corny but what do I do with this info how do I feel better?
2026-06-16 06:22:43
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Durwin :
idk how you're managing to break me down and put me into so many categories, but I would appreciate you not putting me on blast like this. 😅
2026-06-13 14:51:28
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ahmodd🗣️ :
once again, the tea is PIPING HOT 😭😭😭
2026-06-06 03:15:49
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DRACOOLER 🧿 :
they actually go through all these phases on the way to healing
2026-06-15 23:15:17
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bealzebet :
im the second youngest foreman my company has ever had since the owner started 50 years ago when it was his dad's company. but i cant work up the courage to ask my girlfriend for a hug
2026-06-17 21:36:10
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KingEight25 (G7) :
what if you didn't get a chance to learn from either due to being in foster care?!? 🤔
2026-06-03 23:47:41
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shane21173 :
and my anger overwhelms others because my voice booms and carries when it rises. even the slightest anger comes out like rage, which shuts down every argument or heated discussion.
2026-06-13 16:08:25
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sarah michelle :
My husband
2026-06-03 23:54:26
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