@invinciblevenus_: Antwort auf @liz1wrldd when should I disclose my inexperience?

Ratty🐣 :

usually it comes up, when they talk about their exes and then I say well I don’t have any

eren.jj :

He just asked me if I’ve dated a guy, I just straight up said no. I’m not ashamed of it, it just was never the right time 🤷🏻‍♀️

Nerdyglasses❤️ :

he asked me and I said I never had a relationship at 27. Just focused on uni and work. He said he understands. when I made clear that I won't be rushing, he said he wants me to feel safe. I guess we'll see

M Woodruff :

Ugh I so appreciate this. The shame is so rough especially talking to people my age

. :

you look so good in this video omg

Mer 🌺 :

i feel like i should disclose it because it would make me feel more comfortable, and i also think it's fair so they know what they are getting into

eebaldwin0 :

I am SO glad I found you on this ap.

xnickname :

40 male, haven't dated in 20 years. starting to get back out there and nervous about this exact situation

Estelle :

I am someone in my early twenties who can’t quite understand why I feel fear in love. How do you understand your emotions and able to open yourself to love and being loved and not be so hot and cold. Certain then uncertain the next time. It could be a wrong person yet I’ve dated so so much I doubt it’s them anymore.

I HAVE NO BAND :

I'll just wait the next existence...

yeoalicious :

would love your perspective/ experience on/ with anxiety!

immadeletethisaccount4 :

I had my first kiss with this guy, and he was like how many people have you kissed. And I said guess… so then he guessed it x

624 :

My friend always told me I shouldn’t tell them as they would only see me as a challenge so they can use me…

Marzia Morbello :

Make a YouTube channel!!!

AltaDear :

that dress/shirt suits you realyy well!!!😍😍

karasjournal :

I shouldn’t have told my first kiss he was my first kiss huh 😅

Rowan <3 :

Thank you so much. As someone who has never had a long term relationship this is so helpful 🙏🏻🙏🏻

starsandsun.8 :

Glaubst du an Sternzeichen? Was ist dein Sternzeichen?

Frankie Z :

starsandsun.8 :

Wer ist dein Celebrity Crush?

hhfyjjhfjkjj :

How do you deal with fear of getting STDs and not wanting to do things with people because of that fear, and worrying that other people aren’t safe or might lie to you about their condition, even if you yourself are safe

user1927828291 :

yes but what if they shame you for it, it happened to me and now im like scared how someone can act

00000099___0000 :

I’m going to be very vulnerable, i’m 20 years old, never had sex. Never even kissed a boy before. I had a boyfriend in highschool but we didn’t do anything and i broke up with him after 3 months. I’m attracted to men, and i want to eventually have a relationship with one. I’m not asexual, i definitely have sexual desires and fantasies but i have a very complicated relationship with female sexuality and sex in general. When i was younger i realized that men don’t see women as people. They “crack” “hit” “claim” them. I went down a rabbit hole. I saw the porn categories that men watched. “Barely 18” “college sl*t” I saw all the fucked ip bdsm shit. I’ve read reddit threads where men were talking about how they wanted to d*smember and r*pe women. I saw how men talked about “receiving head” and how disgusting and degrading giving a blowjob looked. I saw the sex positions, how the woman was always pinned down and looked like the prey. Because i saw these things at such a young age, i was internally ashamed of being a woman and thought that if i ever had sex i would be degrading myself, that i would be submitting, that i would allow the man to be in a higher position than me. I couldn’t accept that. The thought of that enraged me. How can i change this mindset? I can’t even watch heterosexual porn because of this. How can i overcome this internalized shame?