@scrambled.megs3: People think financial abuse is only control. Sometimes it’s watching your partner spend freely while you carry all the stress, bills, and fear alone. #financialabuse #narcissisticabuse #HealingJourney #divorcetok #emotionalabuse

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torontodad42
TorontoDad42 :
Yep. I took on all the debt. So my credit is garbage and I get all the phone calls.
2026-06-04 23:21:32
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whattodorightnow0
whattodorightnow0 :
Omg yes! I was living on scraps barely getting by only to find out he was banking it in his savings. Found out he had over 20,000 saved while I have -76 dollars after bills. Refused to let me know about his finances:(
2026-06-05 18:45:25
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digital.wife77
Digital Wife 0711373339 :
Thanks for sharing your thoughts
2026-06-15 20:06:13
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jenniferlynn3996
JennK1975 :
I swear we were married to same dirtbag
2026-08-01 19:29:00
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aaronmeadeallen81
🌷Aaron Meade-Allen🌷 :
And you could never save $$. If we had an extra $500 a month, we HAD to go buy something with a $500 month payment. I ALWAYS stressed over $$.
2026-06-05 04:58:48
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cheermom81
Charlotte💕 :
Thanks for bringing this up, everyone tells me it’s my fault I let it happen. I am tired of being bashed by my family over “letting it happen” I quit talking about it
2026-06-06 11:44:44
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pug_snuggler
Amy Sahr :
100%. When we were together I got a new job that required 6 weeks of training out of state. I actually made friends for the first time in years. Someone tagged me in a photo having fun so he spent my entire paycheck so I wouldn't have any money to go anywhere.
2026-07-23 15:35:11
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dudeandlady
missVmiss :
I’m on the opposite side. He tells me he’s stressed having to take care of all the financial burdens (rent, utilities, and groceries). I couldn’t find a job for several years and he had moved us to an expensive city. He makes almost 10k a month and wants me to go 50/50. He always says he can’t save because of my boys and I and has held money/paying rent over my head the entire relationship.
2026-07-20 19:09:26
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itsmelanienancy
ItsMelanieNancy :
Living under financial control for so long was incredibly difficult. Then the betrayal on top of it made me question everything about the marriage. It really shakes your confidence when someone controls the money that way. It was so hard mentally, but I'm still here. 🤍
2026-08-08 02:31:25
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pmktabbycat
pmktabbycat :
we never had enough for rent but we had enough for him to get a hair cut, new wardrobe, etc because he was in sales and needed to look the part.
2026-07-24 19:14:45
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christmassnow214
Christina Turner :
The money situation is something I don’t Miss. him spending down to our last dollar and my daughter and I eating dollar store food for months at a time…smh
2026-06-05 11:52:48
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jenniferwilliams8390
Jennifer :
I experienced this for 12 years
2026-06-05 15:34:55
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ginavudoo
witchy woman :
Truth
2026-06-05 13:44:51
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chandayee
Chanda Yee :
This is spot on!!!
2026-06-05 00:58:20
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jenniferjohnson6030
jenniferjohnson6030 :
ABSOLUTELY 💯 RIGHT! Another project car shows up in the driveway. He lost money on every one. All the time I'm trying to juggle bills why "he had to have this car, motor and this part. OMG❤️💕❤️💕😁
2026-06-05 04:27:34
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nosophistry
Apologetically honest :
My ex took really great care of himself, he could buy anything anytime, while I was questioned on every dime I spent. I was the breadwinner!
2026-07-23 10:46:56
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jennifer_lynne1975
jennifer_lynne1975 :
This sooo me too
2026-06-05 15:23:43
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rachelbowen60
God's grace🇨🇦 :
💯 if I wanted to do things we never had money for it I still have a hard time buying things for myself
2026-06-04 23:19:00
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_sher_bear
user9870397333134 :
I knew nothing about our finances. Was so chilling sitting in divorce attorney office saying I don’t know to all the financial questions. Will never not know again. My money. My life. My decisions
2026-07-19 19:20:57
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cc249301
cc :
yep. mine just spends spends spends. no thought to anything
2026-07-24 11:18:32
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apckek
apckek :
Omg. My life now
2026-06-05 19:57:23
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countrygirl_333333
Karen :
Same...
2026-06-05 14:12:53
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kimmyh909
Kim H :
that's my story too
2026-06-05 01:08:48
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adriangreen44
Adrian Green :
currently dealing with this
2026-07-15 04:01:41
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ogborderline
OverTheBorderline :
I feel this
2026-06-05 20:12:41
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