@scrambled.megs3: People think financial abuse is only control. Sometimes it’s watching your partner spend freely while you carry all the stress, bills, and fear alone. #financialabuse #narcissisticabuse #HealingJourney #divorcetok #emotionalabuse
Yep. I took on all the debt. So my credit is garbage and I get all the phone calls.
2026-06-04 23:21:32
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whattodorightnow0 :
Omg yes! I was living on scraps barely getting by only to find out he was banking it in his savings. Found out he had over 20,000 saved while I have -76 dollars after bills. Refused to let me know about his finances:(
2026-06-05 18:45:25
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Digital Wife 0711373339 :
Thanks for sharing your thoughts
2026-06-15 20:06:13
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JennK1975 :
I swear we were married to same dirtbag
2026-08-01 19:29:00
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🌷Aaron Meade-Allen🌷 :
And you could never save $$. If we had an extra $500 a month, we HAD to go buy something with a $500 month payment. I ALWAYS stressed over $$.
2026-06-05 04:58:48
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Charlotte💕 :
Thanks for bringing this up, everyone tells me it’s my fault I let it happen. I am tired of being bashed by my family over “letting it happen” I quit talking about it
2026-06-06 11:44:44
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Amy Sahr :
100%. When we were together I got a new job that required 6 weeks of training out of state. I actually made friends for the first time in years. Someone tagged me in a photo having fun so he spent my entire paycheck so I wouldn't have any money to go anywhere.
2026-07-23 15:35:11
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missVmiss :
I’m on the opposite side. He tells me he’s stressed having to take care of all the financial burdens (rent, utilities, and groceries). I couldn’t find a job for several years and he had moved us to an expensive city. He makes almost 10k a month and wants me to go 50/50. He always says he can’t save because of my boys and I and has held money/paying rent over my head the entire relationship.
2026-07-20 19:09:26
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ItsMelanieNancy :
Living under financial control for so long was incredibly difficult. Then the betrayal on top of it made me question everything about the marriage. It really shakes your confidence when someone controls the money that way. It was so hard mentally, but I'm still here. 🤍
2026-08-08 02:31:25
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pmktabbycat :
we never had enough for rent but we had enough for him to get a hair cut, new wardrobe, etc because he was in sales and needed to look the part.
2026-07-24 19:14:45
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Christina Turner :
The money situation is something I don’t Miss. him spending down to our last dollar and my daughter and I eating dollar store food for months at a time…smh
2026-06-05 11:52:48
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Jennifer :
I experienced this for 12 years
2026-06-05 15:34:55
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witchy woman :
Truth
2026-06-05 13:44:51
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Chanda Yee :
This is spot on!!!
2026-06-05 00:58:20
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jenniferjohnson6030 :
ABSOLUTELY 💯 RIGHT! Another project car shows up in the driveway. He lost money on every one. All the time I'm trying to juggle bills why "he had to have this car, motor and this part. OMG❤️💕❤️💕😁
2026-06-05 04:27:34
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Apologetically honest :
My ex took really great care of himself, he could buy anything anytime, while I was questioned on every dime I spent. I was the breadwinner!
2026-07-23 10:46:56
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jennifer_lynne1975 :
This sooo me too
2026-06-05 15:23:43
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God's grace🇨🇦 :
💯 if I wanted to do things we never had money for it
I still have a hard time buying things for myself
2026-06-04 23:19:00
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user9870397333134 :
I knew nothing about our finances. Was so chilling sitting in divorce attorney office saying I don’t know to all the financial questions. Will never not know again. My money. My life. My decisions
2026-07-19 19:20:57
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cc :
yep. mine just spends spends spends. no thought to anything
2026-07-24 11:18:32
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apckek :
Omg. My life now
2026-06-05 19:57:23
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Karen :
Same...
2026-06-05 14:12:53
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Kim H :
that's my story too
2026-06-05 01:08:48
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Adrian Green :
currently dealing with this
2026-07-15 04:01:41
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OverTheBorderline :
I feel this
2026-06-05 20:12:41
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