Louisa | Relationship Coach
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Thursday 04 June 2026 14:19:09 GMT
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Sim 🇨🇦🇮🇹 :
Intention doesn’t negate impact.
2026-06-06 15:15:28
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What the hell :
How do I find out what I am and what my boyfriend is I’m not sure if I’m the issue or it him or maybe we just aren’t a good match
2026-06-10 12:41:42
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user0215102 :
It is not that you feel pain if you more anxious. You feel pain if you are secure too. I understand everything they might feel and empathize but they do hurt people. That is true it doesn’t matter if they themself feel bad it doesn’t take of that they do hurt other . I am extremely empathic person and for me to be so done with someone is really because you use all my empathy away
2026-06-05 10:17:14
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Nanarella :
It does not matter, it still hurts, affects and harms people around them and healing is their responsibilty
2026-06-10 15:38:36
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lone ranger99 :
im anxiously attached and she is an avoidant
2026-06-06 09:54:18
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Johan Magnusson :
I love her, no matter the pain, the hurt, the emptiness, the distance... i love her, and that will never go away
2026-06-07 04:59:07
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becky.g12343 :
How do I feel like I’m enough for my avoidant partner
2026-06-05 09:13:18
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Shelly Hennessy :
he shows his affection minimally...but in more day to day tasks rather than emotional...I'm learning
2026-06-05 22:37:48
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Неизвестный :
What do i say to him? 'Your allowed to rely on me'
2026-06-07 11:05:21
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pas.tina :
how do i change this :(((
2026-06-09 16:01:26
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rags_by_the_dozen :
the one he was self aware he said he has a 5 year cycle and broke down crying saying I was his best friend. that lucidness faded fast. but it was exactly right he just couldn't stop it
2026-06-05 02:29:19
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mochaChan :
but it’s not just that, he also went straight into a relationship after and they seem serious. so it wasn’t just the withdrawal, the blocking, the coldness. it was everything else that came after :/
2026-06-06 23:59:45
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Amy :
Well mine cheated on me so 🤷♀️
2026-06-06 17:31:34
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Robinson77 :
Yeah it’s not fair… I feel for them. Honestly. I see it from both sides of the fence and it hurts. But I just hope she’s okay.
2026-06-09 07:15:57
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AlisonElizabeth 🌹Kinesiology :
Yes so true
2026-06-05 08:13:46
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erm762200 :
Stop it stop calling me out after I’ve self isolated for years
2026-06-04 14:26:17
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David _35 :
Very true
2026-06-05 00:18:21
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appparajacqs :
@appparajacqs: And to add to that…..when they do have the relationship they want and that person they love hurts them, it just emphasises what they learnt through childhood. My anxious BF (at almost 50) has only ever had 3 long term relationships. First was 6 years (married 2), his wife had an affair, his last was also about 6 years, she ended it because he didn’t want to move in with her; and now me for the last 2.5 years. I’m just staying grounded when he needs space to regulate after closeness, not react because he can’t say ‘I love you’ but focus on how he shows me, communicate my boundaries in a way that lands safely with him, working on my own anxious tendencies and learning to self-regulate, and show him through consistency that I’m not going anywhere. He has the same ultimate fear I have as an anxiously attached person, rejection!
2026-06-10 00:44:52
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𝐷𝑎𝑦𝑎𝑛𝑎. :
If you’re interested in psychology and influence, you should look into The Forbidden Codex of Influence by Julian Voss. Some of the concepts in there are honestly mind blowing.
2026-06-06 13:15:39
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felipardo :
It’s wild how few people talk about The Forbidden Codex of Influence by Julian Voss. Some of the influence techniques in there completely changed how I see people.
2026-06-06 13:15:38
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Beebabe :
they should give warnings to the person they meet. Its unfair that nice careing people get the awfull treatment . NO excuses.
2026-06-05 01:35:50
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Crujones12345 :
If they aren’t in therapy or trying to help themselves then leave now and save yourself heartache, even if secure.
2026-06-10 07:03:48
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888$ :
I got ghosted after asking for communication it has been a 14 yr cycle, 3 discards, they don’t change, I nearly lost my life dealing with this
2026-06-09 09:22:51
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SAFE :
😂
2026-06-11 12:59:21
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