@coachessteve: : Not every relationship is meant to last forever. 💔 Some people will keep you in their life because you make them feel loved, supported, and comfortable... but deep down, they were never truly planning a future with you. Here are a few signs you may be wasting your time on someone: 1️⃣ He avoids talking about the future. Whenever commitment, marriage, or serious plans come up, he becomes uncomfortable or changes the subject. 2️⃣ The relationship never grows. Time keeps passing, but everything stays the same emotionally and mentally. 3️⃣ His words sound sweet, but his actions say something different. Real love is shown through consistency, effort, and reassurance — not just promises. 4️⃣ You’re always left confused. One minute he acts interested, the next minute he becomes distant for no reason. 5️⃣ He only gives attention when it benefits him. Everything happens on his terms, his schedule, and his convenience. 6️⃣ You have to beg for the bare minimum. You shouldn’t have to constantly ask someone to communicate, care, or show effort. 7️⃣ There’s always another excuse. No matter how much time passes, there’s always a reason things cannot move forward. 8️⃣ The relationship drains you emotionally. Love should feel safe and peaceful, not full of anxiety, doubt, and overthinking. And sometimes the hardest part is this... deep down, you already know the truth. But there’s a difference between being patient with someone... and wasting yourself waiting for change that may never come. 🥺 Because wasting years in the wrong relationship can cost you emotionally, mentally, and spiritually. #algorithmtiktok #fyp #relateable #foryoupage #relationshipgoals
Coaches Steve 🥁
Region: KE
Thursday 04 June 2026 14:29:11 GMT
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happiness 😊 :
who else was taken for granted 😢😢😭
2026-06-05 14:26:00
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vbgugnkn0 :
…. And my stupid ass went ahead and got married to them and stayed for over 15 years still building this future. 🤡🌚- And so now I gotta start all over again at 40, with nothing and plus 2 kids. 😁
2026-06-05 08:46:20
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butterfly :
name of the song
2026-06-11 06:27:12
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Madock :
It hit me hard that one......am still recovering.
2026-06-05 14:08:28
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Nyawira :
that's why I stopped taking relationships seriously
2026-06-05 18:56:08
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🎋Kalosh👑🔥 jaymcybedding :
That shiet broke my heart to be honest. I have never healed. it's hard to trust people again
2026-06-06 12:58:28
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MAMADEY😍001 🇰🇪 :
the most painful relationship is a long distance one hata better heart break
2026-06-05 11:28:26
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Stephen kibiru :
Punguza volume nani 😭
2026-06-05 11:21:32
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Angie_Favor❤️ :
May I never find myself in that circle ⭕️again 🫣
2026-06-05 17:52:11
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colleta🥰 :
The good thing with life is that you can start over again..it's never too late..
that's how I always motivate myself🥰.....and never look back...
2026-06-08 16:38:02
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🦋Lynnette🦋 :
I need a hug
2026-06-05 15:24:27
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ever.joy066 :
I think tiktok reads someone's feelings, coz why am.i meeting this things everywhere😳💔
2026-06-08 10:42:16
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AMINA interiors & thrifts :
Have seen Amanda heartbroken
2026-06-05 16:24:05
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🌸Wanda's cuties😍 :
That was me when I was alive😂😂
2026-06-11 16:40:01
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Winnmast :
Crazy , i am glad to be walking away with my two kids
2026-06-12 02:53:42
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likes🩷 :
so heartbreaking situation but being strong
2026-06-10 19:16:00
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Kairetu 🎀kabusia🇰🇪🇺🇬 :
naruhusiwa kulia before niseme anything 😭😭💔💔🤧🤧🤧
2026-06-05 11:33:14
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GETRUDE MIZENGO :
Called someone several times worried maybe he was cought up in maandamano, thought was caring to know his well being, he ignored my calls for two days. I imagine how expensive it costs to make that direct call, decided to give my brother the number to see if he will pic or it's just me being ignored, I was so hurt and just had to block any access he could use to reach out😭 but I'm OK now,
2026-06-05 19:02:19
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Yvonne :
so true... that is the worst feeling, feeling someone was just wasting ur time while u were serious
2026-06-05 07:03:30
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Eve Oyando :
for he came came back 10yrs letter begging for me back saying I was the one all along and he now knows better and he wants us to start over,with his new knowledge he will be better,what do you think?I once told him he will realise I was his best
2026-06-05 17:08:52
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ikechukwuparon :
am guilty of this... but I love her so much... it's just too complicated for me.. but I still can't let go of her... cause it feels like tearing out my heart... I love her... but it's too complicated
2026-06-06 17:44:07
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@elgon tiktoker :
have been taken for granted for 5 times with the same person what can I do and am deeply in love with him😳😳
2026-06-06 08:16:49
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nevilmali :
Am getting used to being alone.People will always find faults to just wake away.Tell me why someone comes with all kinds of good vibes then boom starts the bullshit of taking things slow.
2026-06-06 10:11:49
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