@nicknamed.bree: 😫📱Have you ever had plans with someone who has an avoidant attachment style & they wait until the last minute to text you to confirm? Here’s what I often see happen & how to handle it. Limit the texting, increase attention to your own needs & opportunities. #greenscreen #avoidant #texting
That’s ultimately why I was done. The anxiety caused by being ignored wasn’t worth it anymore. And he would get mad that I was upset about being ignored all day.
2026-06-04 17:03:31
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Cristina :
I’m tired of gaslighting myself into believing I’m an anxious person when stuff like this happens because it’s disrespectful to do this. Period.
2026-06-06 20:38:29
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India :
Hi there, resident former avoidant here, this person isn’t an avoidant they are an a-hole. They are rude and inconsiderate. That’s not what being emotionally avoidant is. Just want to clarify for all the anxious folks out there. You’re not attracted to actual avoidants. You’re masochists. Hope this helps. 🤗
2026-06-04 18:08:39
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Kristin faith :
nah there response will be "hey" or morning" next day lol. like tf is wrong with you.
2026-06-04 19:02:29
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toasterstrudelheirress :
Being ignored is so triggering for me now
2026-06-05 01:20:46
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Carl B :
How about 8-9 months into a relationship. You text Friday morning when there were full weekend plans in place. Then don’t hear a word or return text till Sunday afternoon. After a text saying “hey, a bit concerned, are you ok? Wondering if should call hospitals?” Then to finally get a reply “hey, just needed to cocoon for a while.” 😠
2026-06-04 19:18:59
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user16165433219 :
Avoidants are evil and go to hell when they die
2026-06-24 16:04:36
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Ila :
Can you explain their behavior, Bree? Why aren't they responding?
2026-07-20 04:55:53
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Ethereal_Layers :
never send a message to confirm. If they don't confirm the day before, I assume there is no date so they go directly in archive ( or unmatched).
2026-06-05 02:16:28
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ICDCCollege3 :
Then he gets annoyed when I end up making other plans because he didn’t solidify ours
2026-06-04 17:18:17
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Carly :
I dated a guy who when i would ask if he wanted to do something he would respond with “it’s possible” or “we’ll see” and I’d wait around all day for him to answer, declining offers from friends in case he said yes. Never again
2026-07-08 06:33:44
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Leezy :
I’d ask my ex (avoidant) out for dinner and she’d reply with “sure if I get hungry later”. Leaving me in limbo all day. Then when dinner time came she’d either not reply and say she “fell asleep” or simply say “I’m not hungry” and then disappear until the next day. Wild times. Can’t believe I lived like that.
2026-06-12 07:51:07
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Brian :
After no reply for 2 hours Im going to happy hour Bree . 😁😁
2026-06-04 17:18:27
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lizinrome :
Unless someone is dying i am not responding at 8 am
2026-06-05 11:51:08
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Brody :
Been there done that…never again
2026-06-04 16:58:02
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carrrrlz :
but i would rather see them than go to work happy hour so likeeee i would rather hold that spot just in case lmao 😭
2026-06-11 02:58:58
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Michael | Attachment & Healing :
They are being rude. cancel and go to the Happy Hour
2026-06-17 16:01:53
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trashedpanda🇨🇦 :
he used to read and not reply, then asked why I kept messaging him. we talked about where I was coming from and what he needs as well. communication definitely helps. from BOTH sides.
2026-06-04 18:51:12
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Nicki Taylor-Morris :
This is so triggering. have been living this for 6 years. The thing is, when he responds and I tell him Ive made other plans he doesnt seem to care.
2026-06-05 12:24:45
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xray :
This is me 😩
2026-06-04 16:02:05
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Chantal :
this resonates so intensely I'm vibrating 😭
2026-06-06 17:29:19
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Dan Page :
Literally in this position now. had plans for gym on Monday with, told me they can do Wednesday and they blanked me all of yesterday, so I had to do the gym alone. It's been 48 hours and no message from them...
2026-06-11 11:13:37
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jennifer 💖 :
omg did you just take a screenshot of my text 😂😭
2026-06-05 05:37:33
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Jpanda.eth🌈 :
this is what I would do omg never knew I was self abandoning myself
2026-06-10 14:32:49
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