@thepottymouthguru: Not every daughter with mother and father wounds becomes a people pleaser. Some become hyper-independent. Some become invisible. Some become angry. Some become rescuers. Some become incredibly successful while quietly struggling in relationships. Because childhood adaptations are not personality traits. They're survival strategies. One daughter learns: 👉 If I perform, I'll be loved. Another learns: 👉 If I need nobody, I can't be hurt. Another learns: 👉 If I keep everyone happy, I'll stay safe. Another learns: 👉 If I take up less space, I won't be a burden. Different adaptations. Same goal. Survival. That's why two daughters can grow up in similar environments and become completely different women. The question isn't: 👉 What kind of daughter were you? The question is: 👉 What kind of woman did that little girl have to become to survive? #unfuckyourself #thepottymouthguru #attachmentstyles #motherwound #fatherwound
Is it possible to be all of these? I feel like I am all of these.
2026-06-04 18:46:11
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I'm a natural blonde 👱🏿♀️ :
As the eldest, I feel like I have most of these😔
2026-06-04 16:48:37
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Vonani Ngobeni :
I literally pick between all of them depending on the day and what the room temperature is like
2026-06-08 20:18:23
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LaLaCheen :
I apparently received the 3/6 combo platter
2026-06-12 18:31:34
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Jenny :
I'm a mixture of all of these and now I have difficulty naming what I need since I've always catered to everyone else. is there like a list I can send my therapist to start helping me work on this stuff? do I just send them this video? 😅 seriously though.
2026-06-05 11:26:07
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lauralee_music :
What if you’re a little bit of every one of these 😅
2026-06-11 04:03:52
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Mel :
Hyper independant, the angry daughter, the rescuer and a slight side of the invisible over here.. Anyone else?
2026-06-12 23:51:06
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Azure :
Angry invisible Rescuer Chameleon 🦎✨💛🤠
2026-06-26 03:08:49
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joycekambala :
I feel like as the eldest daughter I’ve gone through every single phase of every single type of daughter and sometimes in some seasons I’ve been all in one
2026-06-04 22:31:18
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Jaylene 🇨🇦 :
Have you done a video on how neurodivergents can have an impact on these wounds?
2026-06-04 20:51:22
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cheryl_cairns_ 🇨🇦🍉 :
Can I be 2 of those? Cause I’m the angry chameleon 🤷🏻♀️
2026-06-05 01:21:58
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Carol Piguin :
What if I am all? I’m not the angry one to other people, but still angry inside
2026-06-13 23:57:53
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Laura K :
Why am I all of these 😭
2026-06-04 17:32:55
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judas 🇳🇿🇹🇴 :
not to demand of you, but i think it'd be good to also talk about how we externalise the wound. sometimes we're not only victims, but also perpetrators because it's normalised behaviour. it's hard for me to accept love when someone else hasn't earned it, relies on me, or doesn't take the time to regulate me which is wrong of me!!! it's subconscious and done in small unintentional ways.
2026-06-04 18:37:34
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mysticbohemian111 :
Definitely me. I’ve had to be an island. Angry
2026-06-06 16:00:48
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Abby Does Beauty 35+ :
I was just trying to go to sleep
2026-06-27 01:53:48
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keros🪼 :
Can someone become all of them?!
2026-06-05 02:08:10
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Ayaan :
I carry all of the characters 💔💔💔
2026-06-04 16:36:02
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Malia :
so I'm hyper-independent and invisible 😪
2026-06-16 16:43:58
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Soulibration :
Can we be all of these? Lol I’m sure it was one version another of all of them at different times.
2026-06-24 23:40:33
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🍉Adri Anne🇨🇦🍁 :
It's normal to be all at the same time, right? right? 😅
2026-06-24 01:53:19
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Dr.GoodTRouble ❌️👑 :
I am all of these…is that a thing?
2026-06-29 01:32:29
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author_aspareme :
My father has called me “cold blooded” to my face. I just agreed and then asked if he thought that was going to hurt the feelings I didn’t have 😅
2026-06-24 14:14:14
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Natalee :
I pretty much have all of these, how do I heal them so I never have to feel like this again?
2026-06-18 04:13:49
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