@lucadong: It’s all about what meaning you give to your life events, to your circumstances. You feel unlucky because you aren’t strong enough to lift a weight you’ve been looking forward to, meanwhile someone else would be truly happy to simply have the chance to lift. This is a reminder to myself to always be grateful for what I have and what I’ve been given, and to not take things for granted. It doesn’t mean that you should be happy with where you are now, but rather be grateful and push more since you’ve been given the chance to.