1. Stop living in the past
2. Commit to doing the things you say you're going to do and do them
3. No speaking badly to yourself
4. Choose the option that's hard now but builds for your future
5. Do not spend your time numbing yourself.
2026-06-05 11:36:26
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asdiscussed :
“Forgive yourself for not knowing earlier what only time could teach you” 💗
2026-06-05 12:11:02
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J :
I’m going to try and come back to this beautiful video every morning I’m blessed to see. Thank you so much for your kind words, Blythe
2026-06-21 15:07:35
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olivia :
i haven’t left my bed in 3 months, i needed this. thank you 🥺🤍
2026-06-05 08:36:51
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VHScool :
Not speaking badly about myself has been a really challenge
2026-06-05 05:21:23
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Harmonizing Lemon :
This is some good stuff right here. 💗
2026-06-21 03:34:56
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Natalie 🧵 :
"she couldn't have known better, or she would have" 😭 reminds me of a quote I hear that goes something like "forgive yourself for mistakes that only time and wisdom could've changed "
2026-06-05 23:16:04
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selé :
3-9 months? I’m giving myself 2 weeks lol
2026-06-05 19:42:43
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LifaLove :
Yess to this !! & Meditation is game changer 💛
2026-06-21 05:05:12
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soph :
I broke up with my boyfriend on Saturday and I’m gonna move to a new city after our lease ends in a few months. It was the hardest thing I’ve ever done bc I love him so deeply but it’s the right decision for future me. I needed to hear all of this, thank you ❤️
2026-06-15 01:31:04
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-michaela :
For #3, I started staying “I’m just a silly little worm” instead of like I’m dumb or an idiot or other negative thought. And just being really mindful of stopping and saying that has genuinely helped me so much
2026-06-06 20:15:09
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ashloops99 :
Working on #5, sitting with uncomfortable feelings is tough but has pushed me to grow :,)
2026-06-04 18:59:57
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Tots :
This made me get up and go on a walk thank you mother
2026-06-13 16:16:09
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Mere | Self-Worth Specialist :
These are all so important but number two is crucial, build that self trust babbyyy 🫶🏼 also shout out to legs up the wall, so much goodness here
2026-06-04 17:52:49
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a :
More of this in my fyp plz
2026-06-06 00:58:33
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pink_27sparklingice :
Absolutely following I really needed this thank you so much.
2026-06-21 03:39:16
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brooke512744 :
Couldn’t or would have is so powerful
2026-06-20 20:51:55
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Laura Denize :
Self-respect begins with honoring your own boundaries.
2026-06-21 09:07:57
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Detail13 :
So pretty much the four agreements it’s a great book
2026-06-16 20:21:06
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Jacquette Sparkles :
The past hits hard. Haunts me everyday
2026-06-05 07:49:03
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gian :
LOVE YOURSELF FIRST LADIES 💖
2026-06-08 18:49:22
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Carlos (Taylor’s Version) :
Do you have any tips for stopping numbing yourself? Like how to ease yourself into it! I’m pretty sure I numbed myself through college so there’s a lot I need to process but it just seems like too much
2026-06-06 17:58:46
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theangeladawn :
Do. Not. Spend. All. Your. Free. Time. Numbing. Yourself. 👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼
2026-06-18 12:13:50
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☆ Taylor Hansen ☆ :
“She couldn’t have known better or she would have” is so real😭 I’m so disappointed with my past self but I didn’t know better!!
2026-06-08 04:14:16
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