Lorna Dougan
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Thursday 04 June 2026 18:41:11 GMT
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Andie :
They don’t care… never did.
2026-06-04 19:11:52
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Wendy Wilderness Wanderer :
it's so sad because when you reach the healing that almost ended you, that's when you learn NO they absolutely never cared and actively tried to harm you.
2026-06-09 14:51:11
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Liz :
They took and took Never gave. Shocking when you look back on it all. Everything you said is so true word for word
2026-06-04 19:48:41
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Maxie :
Me: what a week! I was fired from my job and got hit by a car on the way home because I was so upset I wasn’t looking where I was going. Just got out of hospital after a week. My husband couldn’t pick me up because he broke his big toe and couldn’t drive. Parent: oh no!!!! Is he ok?!?😏
2026-06-06 14:21:55
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🏴Andrea-M🇬🇧 :
No they didn’t 🥺Was all me me me! Especially during worst time of my life💔
2026-06-04 18:54:01
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Usha Nursing - Counsellor :
It's so weird how it's by stepping away, we start to see them (and others around them!) clearly for who they are. It's such a tough pill to swallow.
2026-06-05 06:14:48
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jhodie39 :
I know my x was a narcissistic basturd. But I know I trained him over 20 years it was OK for him to get away with what he did to me. I think we I tried way to hard.
2026-06-04 23:13:50
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tracym500 :
Is it bad that I’m almost 38 years old and just finding out about empathy and that not everyone has it! I stupidly thought it was basic human decency
2026-06-04 19:29:47
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Jade1 :
No they did not and still don’t I c that now
2026-06-04 19:09:27
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janetsmith8977 :
when you step back they see you.
2026-06-05 12:36:30
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Rockabye :
Lorna, I’ve missed your posts. That is sooooo true. I’ve never ever felt so alone, after 100% committed duty to the family that actually abandoned me. They became the biggest bullies I’ve had to endure in my whole life, when as a child dealing with bullies externally I thought my parents and siblings would care and make them irrelevant. 😢🙏❤️
2026-06-05 00:33:22
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mojo :
No they care when it's to late!! to make themselves feel better!!
2026-06-13 10:51:23
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ScotsGin2020💛 :
💛 I don't think they did... I think I was just useful and yet I adored them.
2026-06-05 14:30:33
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Princess Paula 1 :
It’s a real shock - I remember saying to my Sister ‘It’s as if you were taken away, and somebody replaced you’ - Her reply was so weird, I will never forget it - ‘Are you calling us Devil worshippers ?’ she said !!!!!!!
2026-06-04 20:56:26
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mags :
Helpful. Thank you x
2026-06-05 02:32:13
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Mick :
Thank you this is so helpful Lorna 👌
2026-06-26 10:15:08
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M :
When I was struggling he made me anxious because it became about me. I used to actually feel bad when I was I’ll because he’d have to dad with kids etc
2026-06-04 22:16:50
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user6200816313304 :
Lorna. You seem to read my thoughts and feelings. I cut off ties with my brother and sister in law. So much happier. Thank you
2026-06-04 21:39:10
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Marie Barlow :
makes sense
2026-06-04 18:51:52
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Ren De Grae :
I remember my niece telling me my sister said she loved all her siblings even me. Even me?????? like i didnt deserve to very loved by anyone????
2026-06-10 08:22:48
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Sarah Lee :
No they rushed up so they could be seen as a hero but didn’t help at all. In the good times they would say nasty things to bring me down.
2026-06-05 22:31:40
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mariesmith5741 :
some give suport but it turns into control
2026-06-07 10:13:06
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peanut&harley :
I have no doubt my family cares for me. they just care about themsleves more. which I will never grasp because I was taught from a young age that I do not matter. Im only here to do for others. so I kept that going till I burnt out at 35. now in my household. I am the top priority then it goes the dogs and hubby. his choice atleast until im our of burnout and can function normally or somewhat. I crashed so hard he had to pick up everything I dropped. I couldnt even take care of body, pay bills on my phone, remember to eat or want to eat.
2026-06-05 18:00:34
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Theta Mind :
Unfortunately disappointing whenever people don’t give others the benefit of the doubt and already committed to believing harsh or negative perspectives on people without understanding
2026-06-16 14:22:32
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donnalou3 :
The relief I feel after creating that distance, when the matriarch tried to add me on fb, I felt physically sick. I could never go back, even though my circle is tiny.
2026-06-26 21:59:25
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