@kaelynn_vp: This communication style is worse for autistic people…but it’s actually just bad for everyone 🙃 #autistic #actuallyautistic #autismawareness #neurodivergent #audhd
I asked my manager for examples of what behaviour she wanted me to change and what it would look like and she responded with “I don’t know” like if you don’t know how can I?
2026-06-04 21:00:12
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user5995733546238 :
"what am I doing wrong that I don't know about yet" is all I think at work
2026-06-05 09:02:04
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CATALLAINA ✨👑🫶🏽 :
I LOVE THIS! Keep em coming ! 💖
2026-08-03 15:49:40
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amie :
i have something wrong with me that takes everyone and everything literally and therefore impervious to underhanded or passively rude comments until days after the conversation. and it has gotton me fired before.
2026-08-03 05:13:43
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sheena :
A manager once told me I was underperforming because I asked too many questions when she was laying out plans. I started crying and told her I don't think I could ever meet her expectations if it meant asking for clarity so I could be successful was frowned upon.
2026-06-05 03:31:50
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𝚟𝚊𝚕𝚊𝚔? 𝚘𝚛 𝚔𝚊𝚝𝚎? :
KINDNESS IS CLARITY🥰🥰🥰
2026-06-05 03:40:28
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My Way :
This is why I feel so angry when educators/supervisors make comments about how long something takes them / should take. Don’t get me wrong, I need clearly defined expectations and benchmarks but communicated as a goal to work toward if it takes me longer along with support to help figure out what I could try to do differently - not as a measuring stick used to identify who is good enough and who isn’t.
2026-06-04 20:31:30
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Taylor :
I never realized this is what was happening. Now I know what to look for AND what to ask for!
2026-06-04 20:08:47
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Hannah B :
This goes for adhd too. My work gets worse/slower when I’m trying to regulate my rsd after I was already trying to anticipate their needs
2026-06-06 11:22:02
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⋆。‧˚ʚI love tomura˚‧。⋆ :
I autistic and you really helped me and I look up to you a lot and you’re the person I achieve to be
2026-06-04 19:34:26
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Brian :
Please put these requests in writing too! Because I may forget precisely how you worded something and it eases anxiety to have an email/memo to check for clarity
2026-06-05 11:11:01
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Britney :
If a manager told me to go inventory the books. I will be doing that until it is complete. If no other task is given how do I know to just do it
2026-06-06 00:15:57
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Sean Catherine McIne :
I want your videos in those mandatory trainings for HR and new employees.
2026-06-05 17:27:16
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primocha :
ACTIONABLE FEEDBACK PLEASE
2026-06-05 21:51:14
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That Weird Catholic :
I remember a manager who wasn’t even my direct boss got me put on a PIP, she said I was not communicating properly and kept messing up on things. I told her I wasn’t properly trained and asked what she wanted me to improve on. She simply said “There are some things we just can’t teach you, you just should know them”. I was fired a few months later. Idk what she meant cause I started doing the same job at my current company that was willing to work with me and I am really good at the job. It kind of hurts that I was treated the way I was looking back, but I’m much better off now
2026-06-04 23:33:38
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✨ none of this is real :
NAME THE BEHAVIOR. Don’t sugar coat it. Just let me know the changes so I can do what I need. I don’t need check ins or observation.
2026-06-06 14:07:41
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Starry ⭐️ :
Me watching this as a relatively new supervisor
2026-06-06 05:46:02
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Kris Frogz :
I started writing everything down what they said and asking other people what the instructions are if I have a boss that conveniently changes expectations
2026-06-06 21:48:24
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becca ❄️ :
I have been pulled into the office over things I had no idea were a problem, well after they happened. I have also gotten in trouble for mistakes I apologized for immediately and my manager said it was okay. if it's okay then why am i in trouble????
2026-06-05 21:29:58
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Space Rebel :
^ and find me crying in a closet - 😭 why im not employed -
2026-06-07 11:56:10
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Nicole Soul Snatcher🦹♀️ :
There is too many people in charge at my work and they all say different things.So I went above them to the top manager and was like, how do I do my particular job? they explained it to me and that's what I go by. i can't cope with one manager telling me one thing and another manager telling me the complete opposite. it will cause me to completely melt down.🫣
2026-06-05 16:48:10
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ButCouldItHaveGoats :
"what am i doing wrong that i dont know about yet" is so me
2026-06-06 19:53:28
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Callan :
Very clean editing I’m extremely impressed most people won’t comment because it’s so clean and simple they don’t think how difficult it is well impressed and smooth fluent
2026-06-04 19:41:56
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💲🅰️✔️ ⚧🇵🇸♊️ :
Also I have a healthy ego and if you’re passive I think you’re complimenting me like yes I AM doing my reports like that still tanks for noticing 🥰
2026-06-06 12:21:03
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TaffyLeeFubbins :
THANK YOU. JUST TELL ME WHAT TO DO.
2026-06-07 01:27:00
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