@awakeningsrus: Narcissists believe that what makes them them valuable is what others do for them so they work to minimize their contributions and maximize their usery. This creates more shame and envy as you out perform them, so they dehumanize you to make you feel worthless as they falsely imagine that helping you more or being kind will increase your value when that would only increase THIER value to you. So they become more worthless to try and make you feel worthless like them and this is self sabotaging and makes them hate themselves and automatically fail in all relationships. For breakthrough coaching, send me a message! [email protected]. #narctok #NarcissisticAbuse #Narcissism #npd #covertnarcissit