Annika
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Thursday 04 June 2026 21:12:26 GMT
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cardboardjellyfish :
I regurgitated behaviors I experienced from other people because I didn’t know those behaviors were supposed to hurt my feelings
2026-06-04 23:46:31
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Honey 🎬 🇵🇸 :
this! i used to lie a lot because i noticed other people lying and just thought it was how people made friends
2026-06-04 23:21:39
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An :
did it work? im genuinely curious
2026-06-05 16:27:44
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anna :
I still don't know what is banter and what is just outright mean
2026-06-04 23:37:40
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red lights defender | en- is 7 :
add to this the way that friends tease each other, which can read as being “mean” if you’re an outsider…it was so confusing figuring out what is appropriate to say or not 😭😭😭
2026-06-04 21:16:46
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Victoria 🦴🪲 :
i never saw anyone else talk abt this ❤️🩹
2026-07-03 18:44:56
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🪺🕊️🪿 :
My family always had a "teasing" sense of humor, and I try to copy their jokes, but really meanly until it wasn't funny and just hurtful, but I genuinely didn't understand how what I was doing was different from what they were
2026-06-08 00:58:13
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LizziE :
no literally and then i would try to be nice and that didnt work either. whenever I would try to make friends they would all give me a weird look :( i still struggle making friends
2026-06-05 20:10:40
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iwannaplayminecraftwu :
I did this too , genuinely still so ashamed of myself
2026-06-05 23:16:06
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iamcourtx :
Oh heck this was me too. Didn’t work 😅
2026-06-05 08:03:37
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ash :3 :
i’ve never had an original experience
2026-06-04 23:44:02
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⋅˚₊‧ 🌸𐙚𝐸𝑙𝑓𝑖𐙚🍓‧₊˚⋅ :
I noticed that there being mean and thought of being like that too but I didn't actually do it
2026-06-04 21:21:47
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Mika♡美佳 :
Oh no I did this
2026-06-29 04:11:23
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كوثر :
Any autistics in San Francisco
2026-06-06 04:50:00
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mandalacarol :
I absolutely played into the mean girl role because of this, it’s a huge source of inner shame. I don’t blame myself now because I understand it, but I wish a younger me would have understood it too.
2026-06-06 16:34:56
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🌻DANOSAUR🦖 :
I got bullied a lot growing up, & got sucked into click mentality as a kid, which even as a 29 year old adult looking back I still regret it & feel bad about the sh*tty things I did cause I perceived it as normal when it most certainly was not. All you can do is strive to be better than that. I notice online people don’t want to forgive & don’t believe people can grow, self reflect & change, but I believe plenty of people can & have.
2026-06-06 00:46:12
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nothankyou333333 :
Same but I didn’t have friends - it isolated me further 🤣
2026-06-06 23:48:00
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BritneyMae :
No literally, I thought if I was mean to people they would think I was funny and want to be my friend cause people were always mean to me and the other popular kids thought that was funny, I just didnt want to be the one being bullied anymore
2026-06-05 16:15:36
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Sunshine68 :
Yes! I relate to this so much. I have regrets being a mean girl.
2026-06-04 22:45:27
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limerancid :
I still struggle to be kind to people, and I don't know how to fix it, since its how I was "taught" (by other people being mean to me) to interact with people. 💀
2026-06-05 10:42:01
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Cam :
Wait… people weren’t just jokingly being mean to me as a friend and they didn’t think I was just joking back the same way..?
2026-06-05 05:28:42
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djscapegoat :
I tried allot of things out.
2026-06-05 11:15:39
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Deity :
I learned this from my parents unfortunately
2026-06-04 22:54:35
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River Ripley :
When people were mean to me and I reacted emotionally, I was the one punished for my reaction, not the kids bullying me. So I learned that reacting = bad behavior, and came to a similar conclusion. But when I would say the same things, thinking I am being a friendly jokester, I would get in trouble for it. I never understood why other kids got away with bullying while I would be harshly punished for repeating a joke or jab (most of the time I didn't even understand what I was saying, I was just repeating).
2026-06-05 16:36:11
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Inside Shea’s head :
I experienced covert bullying so I didn’t realize I was being bullied
2026-06-05 08:22:37
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