@repressregressread: How to make educational content when you’re sad. Apologies to any native speakers if I have completely botched pronunciation, I am not a linguist. #grief #childloss #linguistics #learnontiktok #language
Do these languages also have words for those of us who have lost siblings? We are also without a term.
2026-06-04 23:58:30
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giraffekidneys :
I’m a mental health therapist with a perinatal focus and I see a lot of parents who have lost infants or pregnancies. One of the most common struggles is the lack of acknowledgment of children who passed early in life. The “how many children do you have?” feels like a gut punch. I’m mother to a twin who’s other half was stillborn but to the rest of the world, I have an only child constantly being asked when I will give him a sibling. This video is great for helping others with that acknowledgment or validation ❤️
2026-06-05 03:54:32
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That One Time at Banned Camp :
This is clearly valid for those who’ve experienced miscarriages, as well.
2026-06-06 20:19:45
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Jenny Cash :
Fellow bereaved Mother here. My daughter would be 30 today. HHBD VJR 💔 I appreciate this post very much. My condolences to you also. 💐 The Japanese word and meaning sound about right to me.
2026-06-04 22:59:50
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SJ :
This post and you, in general, are the best of the internet. Connecting on a real, human level about things like this touches so many lives and helps others feel less alone and maybe even heal a little. Sharing your vulnerability was likely difficult and I’m so glad you decided to do it.
2026-06-05 18:22:06
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Storms :
my heart goes out to you, what a profound conversation on grief your brain developed and brought to the internet void. Language brings people together, and grief is apart of humanity, thank you for sharing 💕
2026-06-04 23:41:57
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Roy Donk :
I am so sorry for you and your family's loss. We lost my sister a few years ago just before her 26th birthday and seeing the damage it's done to my poor Mom breaks my heart all over again. May his memory always be a blessing to you. 💜🫂
2026-06-05 12:47:22
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Kimberlee Setser :
Thank you for this video and opening up the conversation. This comment section is so healing. I’ve lost both of my younger brothers. Talking about it, putting meaningful language behind our grief is not only a way for us to process our emotions, but to keep the memory of them close.
2026-06-28 11:18:15
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Lauren📚 :
😭 I wish there was an English word for parents like us. but it's bittersweet knowing we're not alone 🖤🖤🖤
2026-06-04 23:20:58
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Radmom914 :
I'm so very sorry for your loss.
2026-06-04 22:57:30
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linibot :
Im sorry for your loss. Thank you for making this fascinating video. It might interest you to know, that "χαροκαμένος / -η" tends to be used either for someone who has suffered multiple losses OR for someone who lost a child. Which makes sense 💜
2026-06-13 15:22:21
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Shauna 📚 :
Sending my love to you. We lost our daughter last year. She passed 4 days before her 25 birthday. Nothing describes the pain.
2026-06-05 04:21:50
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bozawktheterrific :
sorry for your loss. The thought of losing a child hurts my heart. Thank you, your posts always make me think.
2026-07-29 03:32:49
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LauraHasACrazyLife84 :
I'm sorry to hear that you have also lost a child. we lost one of our daughters almost 10 years ago. I have thought often over that time how there should be a word for a parent going through this. thank you for sharing this.
2026-06-04 23:19:28
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Amy | BookTok 📚 :
I'm so sorry for your loss, I couldnt imagine 💔 but so interesting that we're so far into language whilst not being able to 'label' that journey that is so common. sending hugs 🫶
2026-06-06 10:35:10
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Sheila the Reader :
If someone said to me: “I am a bereft parent” would it be safe to assume they mean they have a child who died? I have only heard bereft in the context of emotions but not once have I considered that it could mean it another way. You’re so right that we need a word for this!
2026-06-05 02:46:02
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amberwithminibooks :
Love the language lesson, but am broken to hear the story behind it. Sending you all the love 💚
2026-06-04 23:26:47
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Cinnyrollz8 :
So sorry for your loss. Grief is an extremely complicated thing and it’s nice to have more words to put to it. Thank you.
2026-06-04 23:04:08
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vickigadd :
This is very enlightening. Thank you for sharing.
2026-06-04 23:53:02
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El Norte Recuerda :
I’m so incredibly sorry: such an unimaginable loss. Thank you for sharing this with us, and for creating space in language for us to name such a profound experience of pain. 💜
2026-06-04 23:45:35
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Shauna :
I wonder if we don't have a word in English because historically, infant and childhood mortality was so high, it was just assumed most parents had lost a child? I'm thankful we've gotten to a point where this isn't the case, but devastated for people like you who could benefit from having a specific word to describe this kind of loss❤️
2026-06-10 02:43:21
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Ian :
Im so sorry for your loss, thank you for sharing some educational information even in such a sad topic.
2026-06-05 04:46:50
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DoItLegitly :
Yes, we should have a word for such a profound state of existence; to describe a loss that has reshaped who and how you are forevermore.
2026-06-05 03:07:52
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Erin :
I’m so sorry. Would you like to talk about him? No pressure
2026-06-05 03:18:03
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nick :
This is beautiful, thank you
2026-07-24 12:46:27
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