I agree. People need premarital discipleship and mentorship. ❤️
2026-06-05 04:35:20
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lydthekid16 :
In the Catholic Church most diocese have a mandatory 6+ month marriage prep course which goes over everything from intimacy to communication and managing conflict
2026-06-05 11:55:55
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maizy :
please turn this into a series!!! me and my boyfriend of 3 years are waiting for marriage, but i’m high key scared for so many aspects of marriage!
2026-06-05 05:20:07
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ashlyn ilg :
This is why premarital counseling is so important!!!
2026-06-07 06:15:06
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Shifter :
Because you are supposed to figure it out during marriage your not gonna have it all figured out no marriage is the same
2026-06-09 14:26:16
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aureliamei17 :
This!!!
2026-06-07 19:36:58
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OwlEyes40 :
Sounds like you have a book and content to make. 😁
2026-06-14 13:58:42
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nina_yay💗🫧🍒 :
I think these things were discussed in my premarital counseling sessions — which also helped both my fiance and I recognize we are truly on the same page beyond physical intimacy
2026-06-06 00:48:03
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lifespots :
it’s “boundaries and emotional regulation” culture that none of us got and that’s what it’s all about. be patient with yourself in how long it takes to grow and learn about the most complex things like intimacy, sexuality, and compatibility. ❤️
2026-06-08 14:35:03
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Noah Widgins :
Well I mean you can look at a lot of marriages and learn from them
2026-06-05 02:57:06
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JESS :
this is SO real!!!!!! so well put court
2026-06-09 01:04:39
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Mommax42001 :
Girl
2026-07-25 02:59:47
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Nathan Berg :
THANK YOU
2026-06-07 12:58:11
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cenam01 :
👏 always speaking the truth sis
2026-06-05 01:42:17
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Savannah :
THIS!!!!!!!!!!
2026-06-06 17:38:30
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AaronBurgess6046 :
Well the Bible was written in a time when marriage was an exchange of property (the daughter) & paternal uncertainty was a problem for men. It was a transactional relationship.
2026-07-29 01:00:06
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Truthseeker :
Stayed pure till marriage with wife. Did you do premarital counseling? We did (year 2000) and took tests and many discussions about sex, money, kids. It was hard in the beginning. Because we waited for everything. However, we experienced everything together for the first time. A rough few years to start but 26 years in and we are madly in love with zero baggage. All of our friends that have amazing marriages were married young. There is something about growing together and experiencing things together. There is a level of connection we have that I’m not sure many people have that had many partners and married older.
2026-07-30 14:48:02
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nativegirl :
I have to laugh. Not one of you would have survived the 70s
2026-07-25 23:58:44
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annram53 :
Agreed and that doesn’t take away from the importance of purity. It’s both
2026-06-06 00:13:17
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Cp28 :
No way?! You have no idea to navigate a sexually active relationship?! Who would’ve thought that’s why people try things out before getting whole ass married hahahha. I wish u Good luck on ur journey
2026-06-07 22:04:03
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Galen Mast :
My ex and I waited. Didn’t work out well at all. Probably more of a personal issue, but sex became ‘the’ issue post marriage. I signed up for monogamy, not celibacy. Sex was ‘dirty’ and ‘gross’ and became a weapon and bargaining chip. It just wasn’t good.
2026-06-08 17:26:42
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user1609832963935 :
We must see this from what God’s plan and design for marriage and sex. God wanted husband and wife to be each other’s first partners. No comparison from past experiences. There is no boyfriend in the Bible, it should be all about courtship. Where both parents are involved to make sure the young couple make the best decisions. The Bible gives you all the advice you need to have a successful marriage. If you don’t want to read, the best advice about marriage should come from your parents (who should still married and can give you great advice). Again I’m coming from Gods initial design and plan for marriage. Not marriage culture of 2026, where divorce is 60%. Using Gods initial design for marriage and sex in 2026 culture is like trying to place a round peg in the square hole.
2026-06-08 17:28:53
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