@growwithkaela: Some of the smartest people fall hardest for the DA cycle. Not because they’re naive, but because they’re human. Somewhere underneath all that capability is a childhood gap that the love bombing filled perfectly. This isn’t embarrassing. This is information. Your job now is to grieve what you didn’t get, heal what it created, and learn to recognize the pattern before it recognizes you. ❤️🩹
I feel like I got SCAMMED and feel stupid. Trying to forgive myself
2026-06-05 03:51:54
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Seeka 🔥 :
As a fearful avoidant, I fell the hardest I ever did for a Dissmissive avoidant. I do t even have the words for how this messed me up.
2026-06-05 14:22:33
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kritikat412 :
We have to separate the person from the feelings they gave us. They made us feel special. Not because they thought we were, but because that’s how they keep you hooked. We all experienced the dopamine hits. And you need them for your next high, because they’re also the supplier
2026-08-04 03:25:35
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Elle Jade :
DA didn’t love bomb. He was normal and then deactivated
2026-06-05 04:43:36
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🇨🇦 Jeannine 🇨🇦 :
I’m mad at myself for not listening to my gut or knowing anything about a DA attachment style. He has a pattern and I’m watching him repeat that pattern with his new girlfriend.
2026-07-06 04:48:37
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Cinderella Rockafella :
I married mine and now I feel trapped
2026-06-25 17:03:41
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Gem Stones618 :
I just feel I will easily slip back into the pattern? I’m trying to heal my wounds that are attracting this type….. however I don’t trust myself to slip again 😕
2026-07-08 16:51:10
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Awakened.Pheonix :
I’m an FA and was with a DA for 9 years and it was HELL. I have worked on healing, he never learned to take accountability with me and blamed me for anything and everything and ran off
2026-07-16 06:46:36
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Dee :
Oh the accuracy!!🎯
2026-07-20 22:31:11
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not_telepathic :
Great explanation. Thank you!
2026-07-01 09:30:40
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Gingie13 :
So how do you stop thinking about them?
2026-07-06 02:32:35
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zogfather1 :
Well said. Relatable
2026-06-05 11:29:01
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Redlont Mike :
Feel like I got played.
2026-06-05 07:26:50
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Quiet Luxury Queen :
Especially we hit it off right away
2026-06-05 16:58:29
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mthersch :
You are so right on, thank you!! 🙏🙏
2026-06-15 03:00:57
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NurseHeat :
This
2026-06-11 22:17:25
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Bpunchy :
Falling for a DA is the worst
2026-06-15 17:16:07
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Rico Jimenez586 :
I uprooted my life for one
2026-06-05 15:16:25
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Allison Bloom :
I feel like my DA of 13 months truly is confused and truly believes I just abandoned them over a single incident. It’s been very painful to be 100% no contact for now 2.5 months. Their teen kid still likes my Instagram posts. It’s all so sad. But I could not see a possible way to take another lap 😣
2026-06-14 22:44:29
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BRB :
👏👏👏
2026-06-05 03:36:02
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InTwoIt :
😂😂😂
2026-08-05 23:59:44
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