Every time I hear a lecture regarding this topic from a male Sheikh, I am dumbfounded at the lack of introspect regarding women their state of mind and emotion, especially when a woman reaches a certain age. If she has given him children, she has literally broken her body to give birth to them and make him a father and when it is his turn to show her affection and support when she because her body is paying the price for years of bearing and nurturing children he wants to take a second wife. Also throughout our life when women complain that their husbands are being unjust, they are being neglectful or so so the first piece of advice we are given is have sabr. Why do these men never receive this piece of advice? Also can they not have sabr and make dua to Allah that he makes his wife more loving and changes her nature?
2026-06-05 11:43:39
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Rozina :
what dose he means may be she's not fulfilling
some men are horrible they want multiple women for no reason simply bcoz they are women greedy
2026-06-05 17:56:02
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Niqabi :
I guarantee a house in the middle of Paradise for one who abandons lying, even when joking.”
— Sunan Abi Dawud 4800
2026-06-05 12:44:56
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Anonymous Akhi :
For those commenting 'just give her a divorce' have propbly not heard the clip all the way through. It depends on his situation ✌🏽
2026-06-05 11:50:25
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saydashaik7866✔️ :
The Prophet married to carry a burden for the community; men today marry to satisfy their personal desires🙄
2026-06-06 16:25:44
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Nazya! :
This is cheating plain and simple! If you do something behind one’s back it is a lie and cheating
2026-06-10 14:01:23
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ꨄ 𝔚𝔞𝔣𝔞𝔞 ꨄ :
Omg this is so stupid . I know people who get marry 2,3 and abandon them. Without doing single responsibilities but he is doing it only Islam said that man can have 3,4 they don’t follow Islam and only follow 4 marriages really this is so unfair
2026-06-07 08:32:57
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A :
Why you say every time be a man or you’re not a man
2026-06-11 06:52:46
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Vera :
give her divorce omg so selffish question
2026-06-05 19:36:29
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Edward Rastall :
Just give the woman a divorce.
2026-06-05 11:32:39
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mishaalkmano :
Maybe his character is just lustful
2026-06-06 22:01:27
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Rae Bhana :
why should she stay in the marriage if he loved her ge would not look for some random screw and put a ring on her finger
2026-06-10 08:40:42
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tamrtasteboutique :
What about the men that cheat that don’t fulfill the wife’s desire … we forgot about that and hell breaks loose when she asks for divorce cause he is not stepping up as a man
2026-06-08 23:40:35
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iron one :
sheik my husband has 4 months baby outside without nikah he has been cheating. I feel betrayed . I am seeking for divorce worst of it he told me this in a middle of quarrel.
2026-06-10 08:16:50
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jennybosd :
no women handle her husband with second wife even he was cheating on her ?? 🤓
2026-06-06 03:58:32
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iam uda knowles :
Leave whenever you're not valued
2026-06-11 07:33:39
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halimakhan7059 :
I would not live in this kind of situation
Hell no leave him
2026-06-06 21:13:04
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AA :
SubhanaAllah
2026-06-05 12:33:10
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sigmamams :
what is the right thing to do? should a man inform his first wife bfr taking a second? or is he allowed to just decide and do it?
2026-06-08 05:33:08
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ramsy :
M
2026-06-07 23:06:33
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Mariam :
Maaf, but the way this is being answered is shocking.
2026-06-11 17:16:47
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ahmadbinawf03 :
You got to stop listening to this man !
2026-06-09 19:57:50
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jewell box :
who is not accepting his cheating is not sensible 😁
2026-06-12 15:27:06
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tamrtasteboutique :
95% is her fault
2026-06-08 23:37:01
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Haroun Mkwanda :
Kkkkkkk 😂😂
2026-06-06 12:00:27
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