@therebuiltcoach: Most people talk about deadbeat dads. And yes, some fathers walk away. But there’s another conversation nobody wants to have. Sometimes a father doesn't give up on his children... He gives up on the constant conflict. The court battles. The arguments. The accusations. The feeling that every attempt to be present becomes another fight. And in the middle of it all? The children become collateral damage. One of the most heartbreaking things a parent can do is teach a child to hate the other parent. Because when a child believes their father is worthless... They're also learning that half of who they are is worthless. I've seen young boys speak about their dads with anger that wasn't even their own. Not because they knew the full story. But because they inherited someone else's pain. Children deserve better than that. They deserve the chance to build their own relationship with both parents. No child should be carrying the resentment of an adult. And no father who genuinely wants to be involved should be made to feel like giving up is his only option. The strongest thing we can do as parents isn't win against each other. It's protect the child caught in the middle.#fyp #Fatherhood #fatherslove #mensmentalhealth #rebuilding

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sergio.b640
Sergio B :
This my reality
2026-06-05 15:47:56
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datguyhubb
Domanic Hubbard :
I’m going to say this out loud! NEVER GIVE UP ON YOUR KIDS! It’s very difficult situation to be in (I’ve been there) but those kids NEED & WANT their father in their life. Don’t focus on what the kids mom is or isn’t doing. Your relationship with your kids is in your hands. This is something that should be discussed between the parents b4 they create a life. It should be clear boundaries, clear communication as well as compromising. If you can’t have a simple conversation about it, you should create life with that person. I went through this myself but she already knew that nothing she said, or did would stop me from being in my kids life. I fought through so much just to be there. Just to talk to and or see my kids. I didn’t allow that to stop me. It’s hurtful AF. The reality is, ITS ALL ABOUT THE KIDS! Be present in any and every way. Kids don’t forget that. Kids are smart. They see and hear things while growing up. When they get older, they’ll know who was there and who was the problem. Regardless of if the mom alienated him from the kids, allow the kids to have their father there and they will in time see things for what they truly are and who was the real problem. That’s where resentment comes in. Do allow the mom’s choice prove her right that you weren’t there. SHOW UP! Send gifts, cards, money, letters, create memories every chance you get. Randomly send pictures of yall together, random texts, calls, etc. Believe me, the kids will know what’s what. It extremely difficult to deal with for years. Deal with your feelings in private and within your support system and be. Father to your kids.
2026-06-05 20:32:47
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cindylar01
Cindy :
I co-parented with my sons bio dad. I never said anything bad about him. He chose his mom to talk with me instead which was totally fine. I have always encouraged my son to see his bio dad. Everything was good we got along until my sons 10th birthday. We spent the day at the extreme air park and my son, his bio dad and my sons Gma went home together. They had a sleep over and after that day my son hasn't seen his bio dad ever since. This wasn't my choice or my sons choice. it's been 6 and a half yrs since he's seen his bio dad. I tell my son he is loved everyday and I let him know it's not his fault he hasn't done anything wrong... 💙
2026-06-06 02:00:45
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sallymbramble
Sally marie 🌕 :
I wonder how many young adults on this platform are listening to this and wondering if what there mother is saying about their father honestly no child should be told something rude about their father or mother think first
2026-06-05 16:41:23
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meskerem2049
Meskerem N. :
Where can I see the full podcast
2026-06-06 04:52:12
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brad.6666
Brad :
100%, the most important thing a parent can do for their child is to love their child’s other parent unconditionally
2026-06-06 00:08:05
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paulcurrie74
paulcurrie74 :
%100
2026-06-05 23:16:54
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borisropret
MonteKristo :
1000000%👏👏👏😢😢😢
2026-06-05 14:01:29
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thakinggoatnathaniel
Tha King Goat Nathaniel :
Literally me 😭😭😭 .
2026-06-05 19:55:01
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davidgracedbygod
David 🇦🇺 :
200%
2026-06-05 10:13:51
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tigerivs5
TigerIvs 🐅 :
1000%
2026-06-05 18:33:50
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mintox71
🇦🇺Neilos🇮🇩 :
ABSOLUTELY
2026-06-05 14:17:01
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patrickhughes302
patrickhughes302 :
Happened to me EXACTLY like this.
2026-06-05 15:28:19
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jr213roro
jr213roro :
this is my situation
2026-06-05 19:00:35
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garrygiesbrecht1
Garry Giesbrecht :
I’m 1
2026-06-05 17:06:49
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chiatayxu86
John :
This happened to me and my daughter saw how it was killing me. She begged her mum to live with me and her mum finally gave in. I thank god everyday
2026-06-06 04:45:43
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snowsixty2
oz 62 :
seen this so so many times
2026-06-05 23:15:29
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rheyne52
Rheyne :
familiar story, I've had this done to me but won't give up my son
2026-06-06 02:05:34
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ganglander50
ganglander :
that's what's happening to my son.
2026-06-05 16:00:25
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scrivygotya
Scrivy :
my life and been so close so many times
2026-06-05 16:08:37
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dirty4675
dirty :
My daughter recently asked me how I made it 12 yrs with a smile, no anger , sarcasm, nothing you kept smiling. looking at my granddaughter sitting on my daughter's lap , little hands wrapped around my fingers, I lost it for the first time in front of my daughter, this moment and question made me truly realise how beautiful life is. WE are here for one true miracle in life OUR CHILDREN , I'm now 52 made it past 2 cancer surgeries so far , broke and I couldn't care less , I have 2 beautiful ladies and another little bundle of joy on the way . My daughter's question helped me release and truly understand the past is gone . The future will be beautiful.
2026-06-05 22:53:24
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tindrblackfang59
Tindr Blackfang :
I experienced this first hand growing up and now it has reversed where I speak to my dad and dont speak to my mother because I had to walk away from the toxic situation
2026-06-05 23:16:19
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toys_in_the_attic
Toys In The Attic :
each day that I have with my son I remind myself how lucky I am then I get to be on good terms with his mother. communicating his development, navigating unforeseen circumstances without a fuss, it still sucks not being able to see him everyday but it makes it easier knowing that his mother is a good person with no hate in her heart
2026-06-05 17:45:14
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natashafior
Natasha Fiorelli :
True!!!
2026-06-05 23:23:15
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elite.fitbody
elite.fitbody :
True
2026-06-05 21:25:06
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