Domanic Hubbard :
I’m going to say this out loud! NEVER GIVE UP ON YOUR KIDS! It’s very difficult situation to be in (I’ve been there) but those kids NEED & WANT their father in their life. Don’t focus on what the kids mom is or isn’t doing. Your relationship with your kids is in your hands. This is something that should be discussed between the parents b4 they create a life. It should be clear boundaries, clear communication as well as compromising. If you can’t have a simple conversation about it, you should create life with that person. I went through this myself but she already knew that nothing she said, or did would stop me from being in my kids life. I fought through so much just to be there. Just to talk to and or see my kids. I didn’t allow that to stop me. It’s hurtful AF. The reality is, ITS ALL ABOUT THE KIDS! Be present in any and every way. Kids don’t forget that. Kids are smart. They see and hear things while growing up. When they get older, they’ll know who was there and who was the problem. Regardless of if the mom alienated him from the kids, allow the kids to have their father there and they will in time see things for what they truly are and who was the real problem. That’s where resentment comes in. Do allow the mom’s choice prove her right that you weren’t there. SHOW UP! Send gifts, cards, money, letters, create memories every chance you get. Randomly send pictures of yall together, random texts, calls, etc. Believe me, the kids will know what’s what. It extremely difficult to deal with for years. Deal with your feelings in private and within your support system and be. Father to your kids.
2026-06-05 20:32:47