@lettersunderthestars: It’s very far from a fairytale sometimes #agegap #relationships #olderman #oldermen #agegaprelationship

godblesstheabsentee :

I need to rase awareness for this exact thing one day it’s my whole life it’s so important to me it isn’t just an age gap it’s so insanely and intensely psychological and phycologically breaking and harrowing and eventually so to my core isolating and I say all this with such deep and intense meaning and truth behind every single word I need people to understand and I know they won’t believe me because I thought this too I ALSO IGNORED everyone saying the same thing as me which is why I know this won’t do anything. I though it was all I ever needed anything would be the best the power dynamic the one thing I needed in life if I had him even if I lost everything and I know people who will ignore this may think I am saying all this now because it didn’t effect me much or I must just not be true to it NO if anyone in my life knows his name it was my ENTIRE LIFE and still is and I won’t lie I still do feel like that I am saying all this because it’s so fucking important to me and I need people to understand I know exactly how you feel right now but I also know something you don’t which is the after, thats why I need to say all of this to make people understand I am the same as you and these things are so connected it will always end like this but I need people to understand you really don’t want this you don’t need this I beg don’t do it. Because you WILL lose yourself, you WILL go crazy, it WILL consume every single teeny tiny miniscule aspect of your life down to the bone. I promise you you will actively ruin your entire life and your entire perception of love and safety, security, and your bodily autonomy. You WILL forget who you are, you will lose your sense of self and you WILL be left with no identity and eternal trauma it is so fucking scary I honestly cannot put any of it into words because the way and the feeling of it is so insanely deep rooted, and complex nothing will get across how deeply and truly and EXTREMELY I mean all of this I NEED TO SCREAM IT TO THE WORLD

thewizardchick :

he was single. it took one year. i tried to fight with him, it didn’t work. he was good at stalking. he called me lolita. he was acting like he’s my mentor or smth. he changed my mindset about myself. he tried to settle me down. ofc, it didn’t work. i was too stubborn for him. he lied about his age. i was 16, he was 39. he said that he likes me for my age and my mindset. a lot of stalking, arguments and gr00ming. but after one fucking year, he left me. i am fucking greatful that i am alive. he confess lots of times that he wanted to kill me and beat me off.

🐝 Lizzie 🐝 :

This isn’t an age gap relationship problem, this is a being with a married man problem…

kornelia :

If you go for a married man then well what did you expect 😭

deathbabiescry :) :

These man are mostly also abusive and like to manipulate btw.Its not a cute lana del ray song

𝓜 :

Age gap ≠ a married man💀

★†Aomx†★ :

no one talks about The Secret Book of Manifestation by Leyla Lust enough. it answers questions you didn't even know you were asking

idkball :

He was divorced and we were being a “thing” for already almost 6 months. He took me to eat, let me sleep on his bed, brought me to places? Bought me expensive things, made me laugh so many times, told his friends that I was special and that he loved me, made me feel so Dann special like no other boy ever did. Just at the end I fall in love with him and I tell him and he literally told me “you know why old men aren’t for marriage right?” I was crying so much when I got home. And then I forced myself to unfall in love with him and after 2 months I found out while we were still together he was gonna marry another girl from my school and when I asked him about it, he denied it a million times.. and then after i saw he was no good to me and blocked him I saw a picture of him marrying the girl. My heart dropped and it’s now been 7 months since then. Also since the last time I saw him. I thought I was over him.. till I saw him and his new wife together some days ago… I am NOT over him.

Elia :

so.... crazy idea but don't date a married man??? 😳

🇬🇧ᴛʜᴇɪᴛᴀʟɪᴀɴʙʀɪᴛ🇮🇹 :

I was 17 he was 35 I left him after a while

rae. :

Idk mines the first one lol

️j🛸 :

horrible,i don’t recommend.

Avathena. :

They don’t have emotional intelligence

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~♦|| Hijab 🖤👀 :

By age gap we mean 3+ not 10+ 😭

🐚🦢 :

One time I dated someone twice my age and he was not married nor divorced and we talked and talked then we met up and he took me to his car and we went to some expensive restaurant I looked so confused because I did know he was rich so after we ate he told me why do I look so nervous I thought he was going to make me pay a 300 bill and i said nothing then then bill came and he payed for it after that 5 months later he told me that he was in debt and me at that time was in love with him so I gave him money 4 week pass he stopped calling me and everything turned out he was married had kids my age and his wife was my teacher when I found out i blocked him and was so sad because i thought I really met someone that’s cared.

🍓 :

why would y'all even date a married man

𝒸𝒽𝒶𝓇𝓁𝒾𝓈𝑒 :

theres a 22 year age gap between him and me, and i dont regret it at all. i love him very much, and we get along great. i know plenty of relationships with big age gaps that work better than some relationships where the couple is the same age or only a few years apart 🤣. i honestly dont understand these disgusting vids. just because a man is significantly older than a woman in a relationship doesnt automatically mean its gr00m1ng. a lot of you dont even know what gr00m1ng actually means lol. older man dating a younger woman is not automatically gr00m1ng. gr00m1ng can happen in relationships where both people are the same age too. its about a persons behavior and intentions, not their age.