@abelokanya: You’re always the problem😒😒 #content #relatable #manipulator

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williamhope26
William Hope (Sept.28) :
My own memory no day wipe oo,, I go mention am 😂
2026-06-06 20:18:13
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tunmise_74
TOLUMI✨🤎 :
Then the memory starts coming back after the argument but it’d be too late by then 😭😂
2026-06-08 11:19:43
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lumashley45
Ashley🦋 :
Me and my mom always and she’s always right
2026-06-16 13:12:14
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poseidonsonofcronus_
poseidonsonofcronus_ :
And I say “name one time you didn’t do it”
2026-06-09 08:09:04
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deva02092
Sweet Chocolate 💘💝 :
For the past four years have been like this... but now I always record our conversations..
2026-06-05 20:55:00
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zoe.real8
Zoe Real ♥️ :
I have a very bad memory that I can’t even remember what he said 10min ago so while he ask am just blank …. Have learnt to be the stupid one , I not get strength biko , it’s too exhausting
2026-06-07 18:25:45
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nyarluooriginal
Nyarluo_original🦋 :
My man's character, I swear 🥹
2026-06-16 16:03:14
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kaelin_writes
KAELIN 🍀✨ :
The truth is, when dealing with a gaslighter, never lose sight of the root of the issue. They will often try to shift the conversation, rewrite events, project their own actions onto you, or drag in unrelated matters to confuse the situation. Don't fall for it. Stay focused on the original concern. Stick to facts, not emotional distractions. A gaslighter's goal is often to make you question your memory, judgment, or reality, but clarity comes from consistently returning to the core issue. The moment you abandon the root of the matter, you've entered the game they're trying to make you play. Keep your focus, trust verifiable facts, and don't allow the discussion to be derailed by blame-shifting, deflection, or manipulation
2026-06-11 15:20:49
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ohsax
Oh SAX :
I told myself am never living this way.. so I broke free from a marriage that only remembers my past mistakes. Things I never even took note cause an offence and then one day an argument comes that is not even related to that event and boom everything comes pouring. Like bro I don’t even remember and u definitely not going to make me record conversations so I can replay. Never going to live my life that way
2026-06-07 00:11:33
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klumecare
KLUMECARE (SKINCARE BRAND) :
Me immediately pulling out my evidence 😂💔
2026-06-08 07:55:58
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mmesomajane6
Jane ❣️❣️ :
Wait is this gaslighting,so I am........😳
2026-06-07 07:55:50
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teemahzara6
Tee Mah~😌🥂 :
I thought it was only me😳😔
2026-06-07 22:34:18
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ugo252
alika7up :
omo I dey remember oh
2026-06-16 21:03:24
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hey.its.precious_
Prettylilthing💅🥀 :
Jokes on you😂, i remember with receipts.
2026-06-07 08:41:23
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sunshine12th5
Opheliaaaa🥺 :
Always happened to me end up agreeing in defeat
2026-06-16 20:39:13
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re_becca301
Becca❤️ :
My babe is not ready for this conversation
2026-06-16 08:17:27
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starbella9723
Crystal 🔮 :
If you never dey this shoe, you nor go understand 😮‍💨
2026-06-06 20:25:54
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tanyar_fires
Tanyarwith an_®️ :
See that’s why I like to write things down
2026-06-16 07:15:50
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nancythompson934
Nancy Thompson :
no be for me wey don prepare for the argument start am for my head like 4 days before
2026-06-10 12:31:40
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ileri_oluwaaa
Ileri_Oluwaaaa :
I simply tell them I can’t remember and still stand on my words!
2026-06-08 13:52:11
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debbychurch22
DEBBYCHURCH :
No be for me, wey no Dey forget date oooo
2026-06-06 09:07:37
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promise_king001
Promise king👑 :
no be for me wey get photographic memory 😅😅😅
2026-06-15 12:53:36
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zina_chukwudimma
💤𝓲𝓷𝓪 :
I started writing every experience down!
2026-06-16 15:30:15
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