@emmaa.getsfitt: I spent so many years being the over giving funny fat friend, the one who showed up for everyone, gave my time and money and energy and never asked for anything back, because for some reason in my head I believed that, that was the price of being liked. Losing 160lbs really opened my eyes to seeing how much of my heart I’d been handing to people who were never going to hold it carefully. Some of them left, and it was so hard, but the people I lost made room for the people who mean most to me in my life today. I still struggle with this and setting boundaries, but I don’t believe over giving makes you too much anymore. The right people will never make you work that hard to feel loved🫶🏻