@drsarahhensley: Emotionally unavailable people don't usually tell you they're emotionally unavailable. Instead, they tell you through patterns. "I'm too busy." "I don't know." "I can't give you what you need." Most people hear excuses. I hear attachment wounds. Which one have you heard most often? 👇 #drsarahhensley #emotionallyunavailable #dismissiveavoidant #attachmentstyles #attachmentwounds #relationshippatterns #emotionalavailability
I am no longer convinced that anxious attachment is anything but a normal response to an avoidant.
2026-06-06 11:38:10
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CarolJ1207 :
My husband says "I can't be who you want me to be"
2026-06-06 00:37:40
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escolauram :
AHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH God why did I let this go on for so long. 10 years down the drain.
2026-06-10 05:21:00
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🌷𝓚𝔂𝓵𝓲𝓮🌷 :
I don't know was the answer to everything.
2026-06-06 06:38:47
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t1b2n3l4 :
He was always busy, said “I can’t give you what you need” and made me feel like my needs were just waaaay to much. Made me doubt myself so much.
2026-06-06 05:44:14
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Emily Woodfin247 :
Work, hobbies, EVERYTHING else, me. So accurate.
2026-06-06 23:29:17
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lewychewy3 :
I heard all 3. Way too much
2026-06-06 11:15:10
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HiyaChew :
My wife is currently giving me 1 & 3 with a side of ‘you should know.’
2026-06-06 14:32:25
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GeorgiaPeachss :
Yeah.. my avoidant told me he loved me tonight plus all of this.
2026-06-09 05:12:09
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cmeadeart :
I would say the top three things would be “your expectations are unrealistic” “you’re too muc and “our values have changed.”
2026-06-06 13:05:39
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Monica :
I don't get anything!!!! Silence!
2026-06-07 05:22:23
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Olivia E :
3/3 sometimes all in the same day
2026-06-06 14:54:03
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Kibbi Linga :
Oh no this just happened to me
2026-06-06 12:51:56
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MizzJone :
2 and 3 on repeat 😩🙏🏾
2026-06-06 17:51:36
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Bonnie 🦋 :
Said all 3 things.
2026-06-07 14:39:22
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Paradise Canyon at Hiddenfalls :
Theres no hope…
2026-06-07 23:51:40
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sandilesali :
I was like that! Until I healed my shame and mother wound.
2026-06-06 13:36:01
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Gotti 🌈 :
OMG 💥
2026-06-06 00:33:19
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WordsMatter :
Where can I find info on the avoidant who has accepted he is avoidant and is trying to be better/ partner trying to help him through this.
2026-06-07 17:56:37
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Natalie ❤️ :
Accurate. Mine said all 3
2026-06-06 20:10:52
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DarkF0xx :
All three 😁
2026-06-06 08:46:17
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Renee Sessions :
I have heard all of them.
2026-06-06 03:54:41
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Fabio_Antonio_Geo :
Hey Doc, post this vid on your IG plz
2026-06-06 01:56:28
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Amanda :
Yes to all but he spun number 2 back onto me by saying I watched too many Disney movies and my expectations were too high. This was his response after I learned he started an affair on our wedding night.
2026-06-06 01:57:26
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emme :
💯 Exactly my experience.
2026-06-06 00:41:28
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