“treat everyone like they’re wearing a wire” changed my life as a oversharer
2026-06-06 18:34:26
19441
Holynatt :
Also. No social media access to colleagues
2026-06-07 23:52:39
6232
Career & Networking for Women :
An old mentor of mine told me the best way to overcome the habit of oversharing is to stop narrating your life in real time. She said to put a delay between living something and sharing it. Post vacation photos after you’re home. Tell people about a promotion a week after you get it. If something good OR bad happens to you, sit with it for a few days before letting anyone know. Honestly the root of oversharing is usually seeking validation for what you’re doing. When you put that delay in place, you’re teaching yourself how to self validate. You sit with the win and feel proud of it on your own before anyone else gets to react. You process a bad day before you reach for someone else to confirm it was hard. Over time you stop needing the external response to make your own experiences feel real, and that’s when the oversharing habit breaks.
2026-06-06 03:56:11
6515
diamantdavril__ :
As a former oversharer, I love this!
2026-06-06 00:55:11
2983
Johanna :
Sometimes I lie people be asking too much question
2026-06-06 14:25:16
4852
DearJaNae :
I’m so private, I’m not reposting this. 😂😫😭
2026-06-07 01:34:10
1715
KellyKelllllz :
You’ll stop over sharing once you realize most people don’t even care, they’re just nosy!!
2026-06-08 01:58:38
840
Daija J🦋 :
My favorite line “nothing much, just working” lol
2026-06-06 14:16:20
1286
gina | new england :
Vents lead to other rooms was an important thing to learn
2026-06-07 01:15:29
621
m :
Vulnerability is a super skill. Discernment is key. It’s important to balance.
2026-06-06 16:14:17
341
Fiona apple shady af comebacks :
Ive been told im a boring person cus i dont tell people about my life
2026-06-06 05:38:16
694
⋆.𐙚 ̊ Стиви ⋆.𐙚 ̊ :
I love being a private person! But I also noticed that it pisses people off😭😭
2026-06-06 21:39:59
124
Alexis Andrea :
People need to stop asking questions too.. 😭
2026-06-08 21:02:45
193
Maggie Kate (MK) :
My therapist said “make people earn the right to know about you”
2026-06-18 16:29:17
28
Avva_Sagiterrorist :
I’m working on this
2026-06-06 01:39:25
210
Malkia :
Bonus tip, avoid appearing too perfect. You’ll attract the ill intent from all sorts of people.
2026-06-08 17:03:12
38
calgirlll777 :
As a former oversharer, I know just over share about stupid stuff like how Ive been obsessed with random foods or tv shows or something like that😂 Never anything personal, but when I talk about it Im talking a lot so to those people it sounds more important than it actually is to me
2026-06-06 16:57:04
293
Youpromise1968🫧 :
Very private person here, bumped into a childhood associate & he told me that I need to open up & be more open so I did that & he went & told my cousin some about me when I didn’t want her to know. I wanted to tell her when I was ready. So with that being said, it made me realize being private is definitely important to me.
2026-06-06 11:58:52
394
bingsuvivi :
Move in silence!!
2026-06-08 19:24:37
40
pepsimax :
A private life is a peaceful life🔒
2026-06-25 08:35:08
24
Mima :
Journal 📝 first before you share it.
2026-06-06 11:59:54
100
💎 :
As an oversharer, it’s all about managing your emotions. Sometimes you’re excited then uou accidentally overshare. Find out why and then manage that feeling
2026-06-06 08:25:05
155
Jess✨ :
I remember hearing someone saying that if you don’t benefit from sharing your business with someone then don’t share it and now I can’t unhear it!!
2026-06-06 14:34:48
150
Iisa🫎🧁🩰 :
I hate how much i overshare omd
2026-06-07 11:34:47
46
Fashion_in_my_sole 42 :
Lesson learned, lesson learned
2026-06-06 15:32:29
99
To see more videos from user @themariemoore, please go to the Tikwm
homepage.