@vanezmu: When your brain needs 24 hour notice and they give you 24 minutes… 🧠 silently screaming #autism #neurodivergent #autismawareness

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johnm33333
St. John M :
I agree with her. I know how she's feels.
2026-06-06 08:04:01
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forto.divenecia
unkklerico :
I think im autistic.
2026-06-07 00:16:37
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moncherix3
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heavy on the "everyone agrees" response being "you didn't even ask..." THAT makes me not go every time because in my mind it says: "we knew you wouldn't like it, chose it anyway and CHOSE to tell you last minute knowing how you feel" the lack of considerations hard for me to forgive
2026-06-18 23:02:05
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frankiefunfetti
francesca ⟭⟬⁷ :
if the plans change I am not going
2026-06-18 21:02:12
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izz69435
izz :
I have a son who is autistic. I don’t think this is a funny joke for someone who is autistic. It can be very stressful changing a routine you should consider other peoples feelings.
2026-06-07 04:53:28
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mikalailaa
AnonymousUser :
Have fun at Benihana. I’ll be at Olive Garden lol
2026-06-29 20:56:52
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simplysimi_x
Simi Awelewa :
So why wasn’t she included in the plan change convo 🫤
2026-07-15 21:54:27
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aarenprice987
Aaren :
"it doesn't matter" well it does to me!!!!!
2026-06-06 10:33:20
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_f0fisgfc_
Fofisss :
For anyone who feels overwhelmed by life and doesn't really know where that feeling is coming from, Clara Hartley's anxiety quiz might be worth trying. It could help you notice patterns that are easy to miss on your own.
2026-07-29 14:52:15
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zhara_kk
zarmin :
ngl im staying at home
2026-06-15 23:28:35
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randomlybliss
Bliss :
Why be kinda rude about it and if you know she has issues and why not reassure and say we can look at menu rn not make her feel worse
2026-06-07 01:06:30
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loverheart450
🌈🏳️‍⚧️🎸MALAKIA🎸🏳️‍⚧️🌈 :
“Everyone agreed” yeah well everyone also agreed of olive garden!
2026-08-11 18:59:32
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solz8900
Sol :
If there is change of plans in less than 20 minutes I’m not going, plain simple
2026-06-19 19:57:47
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2girls1gulf
2girls1gulf :
I’m triggered.
2026-06-20 07:03:37
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prinsismalia6
malia 🏳️‍🌈 :
I HATE when plans change! people dont understand how frustrating this is!
2026-07-19 01:42:25
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vanesa_mayonesa07
VanesaVibes :
Same! I thought it was normal to be annoyed/upset by changing plans last minute.
2026-06-07 23:18:22
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blazebritany320
blazebritany320 🏒⛸️ :
if my friends change plans 20 minutes before I'll be not leaving the house
2026-06-16 18:08:52
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terie_gray
Terie_Gray :
I agree with her. She had a week of being excited and preparing for one plan. I have a really hard time with resetting for last minute changes.
2026-06-27 15:07:58
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morning._glory3
Morning _Glory :
You are not the problem. That was inconsiderate of them.
2026-06-16 20:55:15
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veryunseriousbarbie
Unserious Barbie :
1. I had my mouth set for Olive Garden, 2. I dont feel like sitting with strangers 😭
2026-06-21 23:48:54
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diva_dee25
Dee :
My son is the same way. He prepares way in advance
2026-06-08 19:47:52
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eddieboyo76
eddieboyo76 :
I totally agree with Vanessa because I hate constant last minute crap. Express it out you go girl!
2026-06-06 23:30:15
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daisydoll11
daisydoll11 :
i was exactly this was and i always choose to stay home. it can be extremely overwhelming and uncomfortable.
2026-06-19 13:31:06
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joelewis969
Joe :
I feel her anxiety right now. I’m not there and I’m already staying home.
2026-06-20 13:46:38
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