@vanezmu: When your brain needs 24 hour notice and they give you 24 minutes… 🧠 silently screaming #autism #neurodivergent #autismawareness

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johnm33333
St. John M :
I agree with her. I know how she's feels.
2026-06-06 08:04:01
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randomlybliss
Bliss :
Why be kinda rude about it and if you know she has issues and why not reassure and say we can look at menu rn not make her feel worse
2026-06-07 01:06:30
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lunamoon2490
Luna Baby :
I feel this in my soul 💯
2026-06-09 00:52:38
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yubi1234
Yesi :
Same as Vanessa and I agree with her! Team Vanessa
2026-06-06 17:14:20
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forto.divenecia
unkklerico :
I think im autistic.
2026-06-07 00:16:37
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sonnynomadls44andtiny
sonnynomadls44andtiny :
Nope we going to Olive Garden
2026-06-07 12:08:50
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aarenprice987
Aaren :
"it doesn't matter" well it does to me!!!!!
2026-06-06 10:33:20
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angeljr.73
Angel.jr :
I agree with her.😇 That anxiety is real
2026-06-06 19:30:15
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izz69435
izz :
I have a son who is autistic. I don’t think this is a funny joke for someone who is autistic. It can be very stressful changing a routine you should consider other peoples feelings.
2026-06-07 04:53:28
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scarecrow.demon83
👻Michael :
Why do you keep doing this to her. That’s a bit rude of you not considering her feelings
2026-06-07 06:31:56
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hope_n0313
Hope13 :
I’m with her 🥰why did this change last min?
2026-06-07 13:14:26
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noelia.lee1
Noelia Lee :
I agree with your daughter
2026-06-06 18:28:39
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bibidiaz8
Bibi Diaz :
I think I’m autistic because change always messes me up. Even my mom told me I’m autistic. I have never been diagnosed .
2026-06-08 05:47:07
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eddieboyo76
eddieboyo76 :
I totally agree with Vanessa because I hate constant last minute crap. Express it out you go girl!
2026-06-06 23:30:15
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cosnerdesigns
cosnerdesigns :
I hate last min plans and changes, I need to mentally prepare too
2026-06-07 01:20:16
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jmp12622
quantumleap :
I agree with you, steadfast to a plan👍👍😁
2026-06-08 00:30:08
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chrisdamasco
xris :
yah, it was planned a week early. the build up and then the disappointment. i wouldnt go.
2026-06-07 08:55:20
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annahugh71
Mariah :
She is beautiful
2026-06-07 19:45:45
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el_cuscatleco
david :
This is a real thing, I had to learn to let my son know what the plans are and when they change I have to prepare him for the change
2026-06-06 19:56:44
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notoriouslalo
Lalo :
Im with Vanessa
2026-06-08 05:21:13
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jmason64
jmason64 :
I get it
2026-06-07 09:20:59
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lariami
user3597096878502 :
She is beautiful!!
2026-06-07 18:21:37
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thesal25
TheSal25 :
What works best is you don’t mention the plans have changed just yet, you can show them a video you saw of Benihanas and mention how fun and delicious the food looks, you can mention what you would order there and look over the menu together and have them give you suggestions of what should you order and what would they order if you went, don’t talk down Olive Garden but hype up Benihanas, and then include them in the decision making of Benihana’s over Olive Garden. There’s a relentlessness and Anxiety I get when they change the plans on me last minute, I’ve already pre planned my meal sometimes even an alternate meal incase there is a situation with the availability of my meal, I’ve set my mind and even my taste buds towards the meal I am anticipating on having, however if someone convinces me other wise and I can prepare for it I don’t mind switching up as long as it’s not by force and I’m included in the decision making.
2026-06-06 20:42:07
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vanesa_mayonesa07
VanesaVibes :
Same! I thought it was normal to be annoyed/upset by changing plans last minute.
2026-06-07 23:18:22
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luzreyes9205
Luz Reyes9205 :
I have a autistic son I no how it feels
2026-06-06 14:28:02
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