Why be kinda rude about it and if you know she has issues and why not reassure and say we can look at menu rn not make her feel worse
2026-06-07 01:06:30
31
Luna Baby :
I feel this in my soul 💯
2026-06-09 00:52:38
1
Yesi :
Same as Vanessa and I agree with her! Team Vanessa
2026-06-06 17:14:20
32
unkklerico :
I think im autistic.
2026-06-07 00:16:37
15
sonnynomadls44andtiny :
Nope we going to Olive Garden
2026-06-07 12:08:50
5
Aaren :
"it doesn't matter" well it does to me!!!!!
2026-06-06 10:33:20
25
Angel.jr :
I agree with her.😇 That anxiety is real
2026-06-06 19:30:15
5
izz :
I have a son who is autistic. I don’t think this is a funny joke for someone who is autistic. It can be very stressful changing a routine you should consider other peoples feelings.
2026-06-07 04:53:28
9
👻Michael :
Why do you keep doing this to her. That’s a bit rude of you not considering her feelings
2026-06-07 06:31:56
11
Hope13 :
I’m with her 🥰why did this change last min?
2026-06-07 13:14:26
8
Noelia Lee :
I agree with your daughter
2026-06-06 18:28:39
6
Bibi Diaz :
I think I’m autistic because change always messes me up. Even my mom told me I’m autistic. I have never been diagnosed .
2026-06-08 05:47:07
2
eddieboyo76 :
I totally agree with Vanessa because I hate constant last minute crap. Express it out you go girl!
2026-06-06 23:30:15
4
cosnerdesigns :
I hate last min plans and changes, I need to mentally prepare too
2026-06-07 01:20:16
3
quantumleap :
I agree with you, steadfast to a plan👍👍😁
2026-06-08 00:30:08
3
xris :
yah, it was planned a week early. the build up and then the disappointment. i wouldnt go.
2026-06-07 08:55:20
2
Mariah :
She is beautiful
2026-06-07 19:45:45
1
david :
This is a real thing, I had to learn to let my son know what the plans are and when they change I have to prepare him for the change
2026-06-06 19:56:44
4
Lalo :
Im with Vanessa
2026-06-08 05:21:13
2
jmason64 :
I get it
2026-06-07 09:20:59
1
user3597096878502 :
She is beautiful!!
2026-06-07 18:21:37
1
TheSal25 :
What works best is you don’t mention the plans have changed just yet, you can show them a video you saw of Benihanas and mention how fun and delicious the food looks, you can mention what you would order there and look over the menu together and have them give you suggestions of what should you order and what would they order if you went, don’t talk down Olive Garden but hype up Benihanas, and then include them in the decision making of Benihana’s over Olive Garden. There’s a relentlessness and Anxiety I get when they change the plans on me last minute, I’ve already pre planned my meal sometimes even an alternate meal incase there is a situation with the availability of my meal, I’ve set my mind and even my taste buds towards the meal I am anticipating on having, however if someone convinces me other wise and I can prepare for it I don’t mind switching up as long as it’s not by force and I’m included in the decision making.
2026-06-06 20:42:07
1
VanesaVibes :
Same! I thought it was normal to be annoyed/upset by changing plans last minute.
2026-06-07 23:18:22
1
Luz Reyes9205 :
I have a autistic son I no how it feels
2026-06-06 14:28:02
2
To see more videos from user @vanezmu, please go to the Tikwm
homepage.