Carrie Badger
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pingunootnoot2019 :
You say no connection with baby but had all the fears of any mother, your getting up and showing up and doing your best! You got this! Your stronger than you think xx
2026-06-08 14:46:02
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Megan🌺 :
All I could think while watching this video was despite how you felt you still cared, looked after and made sure your baby was safe. You go mama❤️🫶🏻
2026-06-07 19:24:04
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Katie McDermott :
Before I seen any of the other comments, all I could think of was reading you say how you felt no connection but had every worry possible about your baby’s safety which screams how much of a wonderful mammy you are! So much hugs to you, the fellow mammys see you ♥️xxxxxx
2026-06-07 20:57:11
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Ash ✨ :
Slides 3-6 are not talked about enough. I felt *zero* connection to my baby the entire pregnancy, birth, and like first month she was here. I felt like such a horrible mom bc I wasn’t experiencing these highs that other moms kept talking about. Turns out, it’s a much more common experience than I realized as a FTM.
2026-07-19 04:19:48
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grindhousebandit :
I felt no connection to my daughter either. A nurse had to come to my house multiple times a week to work on us bonding. I thought i was evil for how i felt and would cry all the time. She told me that if i truly was the evil mum i was making myself out to be, i wouldn’t even be bothered. I wouldn’t cry. I wouldn’t worry. It really helped me process why i felt so disconnected and work through it, i just needed that pointing out to me. I was 16 and with little support, everyone told me id just feel this “rush” of love and I didnt and it ate me alive. My daughter is 6 now, and we learnt our bond and made it ourselves. Its now iron-clad. We’re inseparable! No struggle lasts forever ❤️
2026-06-08 20:41:27
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Dalz :
Don’t come at me for this… so many people said the minute you hold your baby it’s like love at first sight and your whole world stops… I didn’t feel this either.. I feel like it naturally comes within time and not the first month
2026-08-02 21:29:51
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TaelaBroadhurst :
This whole tik tok made me feel seen🫶🏻 thank you for being open on the reality of postpartum🩷
2026-06-07 15:20:18
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anita daphne ☭ 🇮🇹 :
girl i think u were feeling so numb ALSO cause ur fiancé was not being a fiancè but just a neighbor. why were you doing the most of the work? it should be 50/50.just saying. anywau thank u so much for sharing ur story. its very important. send u the biggest hug❤️
2026-06-08 16:29:21
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Ella :
I can relate to every single slide. You’re not alone, you’re amazing🤍
2026-06-07 18:20:44
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WhisperNest :
Every single one is so valid, exactly how I felt and what happened with me ❤️❤️
2026-06-07 19:52:29
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paige💋 :
I could relate to all of these postpartum was rough never again 🤣
2026-06-07 14:57:17
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Pollierose :
Before I had my son everyone told me I’d get ‘this overwhelming feeling of love’ as soon as he was handed to me and I didn’t, I always wondered why I didn’t experience that, he was just a baby I cared for, until he was about 4 months old then it hit me how much I adored his little bones ☺️
2026-06-08 17:06:04
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Janika🎀 :
I know this would be me so i’m not having kids.
2026-06-10 10:52:11
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Ry :
you’ve done amazing mothers don’t get enough credit
2026-06-08 06:27:15
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Abi🩷 :
So glad you’re speaking about this! It’s not spoke about enough❤️
2026-06-07 20:38:55
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Iva.k_92 :
ok btw
2026-06-09 05:11:04
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BeckyLou :
Currently feeling exactly like this. Thank you for showing me it’s not just me x
2026-06-08 07:57:08
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Sofia Fernandes :
Thank you for this
2026-06-07 22:40:39
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Charnarose jane Chapman :
This!!! I feel like someone’s just listened to me 😭 thank u
2026-06-07 20:10:09
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zoeeeeeeeeoz :
Could’ve wrote this word for word myself. 14 months later and I’m so grateful things got better 😮💨
2026-06-08 07:12:44
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PennyLanePenniless :
my postpartum anxiety has turned into full blown OCD . . its awful and feels so isolating . . I hope you're doing better now ❤️youre little one is so precious 🥰
2026-06-08 10:46:57
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anaellison :
I really wish I had watched a video like this 5 yrs ago when I had my son. Like yourself, I wanted a family and he was so wanted. Once he arrived and we got home, I was having panic attacks, couldn’t sleep, didn’t bond with him at all, even though I was breastfeeding?!! I thought I was broken, I was in an awful place for months. Hence the decision to only have 1 child, I couldn’t go through that again. Thank you for this xo
2026-06-07 20:40:46
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