@lorna_mindpositive: When the scapegoated sibling finally says, “That’s enough.” Everything changes… So when they stop apologising for things that weren’t their fault. Stop smoothing things over and they stop making themselves smaller so everyone else can stay comfortable. That’s usually when the illusion of the “close family” starts to crumble. Because what looked like a functioning family was often being held together by one person carrying far more than their fair share. #scapegoat #emotionalabuse #toxic #family #estrangement

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vanlife656
VanLife65 :
No, they all ganged up on me without ever having a conversation with me.
2026-06-09 09:55:20
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scotlad92
ScotLad92 :
I get a lot of these videos online and a lot of them make references to ‘the siblings’ in these situations. I honestly get jealous. I’d love a sibling to be able to discuss the situation with and help navigate the situation. Dealing with a narcissistic parent as an only child is a nightmare. You know if you walk they are left with nothing.
2026-07-24 12:57:24
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roselocastro1
Rosie's Kitchen :
this is me and I'm done now😔
2026-06-07 20:24:35
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credintapestefrica
Credința peste frică :
I also believe the siblings turn on the scapegoated siblings who is trying to heal because there is a subconscious fear they may be the next scapegoat.
2026-06-08 10:37:20
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jen2974
🌼🦋~Jen~🦋🌼 :
This is me. I went no-contact from my whole family almost two years ago. That includes cousins, aunts, uncles etc. No one in ‘my family’ has knowledge of what is happening to me. It’s hard. But the alternative is harder🥹
2026-06-09 00:39:11
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robertgreen_666
Robert Green666 :
I went full no contact with my entire family and enjoy the silence
2026-06-10 12:51:05
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libbyhoo
Libby :
I have healed. Thank God. My 3 sibling were so cruel and unkind. I removed myself once my Mother passed on. I have never looked back. I am free. they caused so much misery. I am so happy now. I am at peace and I love my life
2026-06-08 10:36:46
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warriorofthesouth
Lu M 👑 :
It feels amazing to be free to live in peace with no toxicity or drama. Anyone in this situation. Run fast and never look back for your own peace and happiness.
2026-06-11 16:12:42
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starbuckmarquis
starbuckmarquis :
The siblings became the angry horde with flaming torches and pitchforks
2026-06-08 21:57:04
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lisab3361
LisaB :
Do you think that the reason why the scapegoat gets the blame is because everyone thinks we are the softer (no power) option rather than the parent?
2026-06-07 20:33:01
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cathy.morrison42
Cathy Morrison :
sometimes its always the sibling and not the parents
2026-06-07 19:50:05
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ricardinhonineninenine
ricardinho :
currently going through this....
2026-06-08 08:08:04
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odd_burt
Audrey🇨🇦 :
My twin sister was the most abusive person in my life - after my father. I have gone no contact. I wish it could have been different.
2026-06-08 11:38:26
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cabu567
user8916639027907 :
And then it's your fault the family falls apart 😅 Just run.
2026-06-08 19:36:20
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mariemerg3
MarieMerg :
It took me 55 years to learn my family doesn’t like me - I’m the scapegoat- the one who left at 15 and never returned. Today I’m a threat to them and I get it: they better leave me alone. Byeeee
2026-06-11 08:44:41
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samsbookishbalance
SamsBookishBalance :
Me, with my mom and sister!
2026-06-08 09:02:06
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justherelurkinggg
justherelurkinggg :
I have stopped playing in these peoples plays😂😂 god will handle it😂😂
2026-06-13 05:52:59
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steven.bloodworth
Steven Bloodworth :
8 years ago I just got to the point where id had enough of their "noise" and moved as far away as i could. I have no regrets should of done it earlier i guess.
2026-06-10 04:06:25
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obelix1970
Obelix1970 :
What makes you an expert to be advising on these matters?
2026-06-17 15:44:30
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ttooti96
ttooti :
Dad left when I was 14 and I cut ties with my abusive mum when I was 18, I was living in a council estate surrounded by junkies and struggling every day to get by. Worked hard all my life to do better and have a life where I don’t have to worry all the time. Now I’m in my 40’s, great job and financially comfortable. But I’m also the bad guy in everyone’s story. I think I’m better than everyone and am up myself, apparently. no one has ever tried to reconnect with me! But now I’m the villain. The “forgot where they came from” person 🙄.
2026-06-20 09:46:42
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artfromabi
artfromabi :
this is 100% accurate! went no contact with my Mum 7 years ago, she then lost my Dad because she turned her vile behaviour onto him instead, then when she lost Dad, she turned on my brother. she now has no family. my brother is no contact with her and has been for 3 years. unfortunately, my dad passed 5 weeks ago and never got to experience life without her.
2026-06-17 08:37:21
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autisticreborndad_0361
AutisticRebornDad_0361 🏳️‍⚧️ :
So true I'm no contact with my narcissistic parents and narcissistic sister and I'm the scapegoat and I got shamed and made the bad guy and it's because they don't want to change and hate the truth
2026-06-10 13:20:46
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revtech36
RevTech :
When they have already turned everyone and they can no longer hurt you - you run and don’t walk
2026-06-10 18:01:20
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hope4u235
hope4U2 :
I live rent free in my siblings head. No loss to me. Life is a lot more enjoyable without all the drama.😏
2026-06-10 20:48:11
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mojana67
mojo :
I was a scapegoat to my mother i went for psychology and she told me...my mother had me like a fishing rod reeling me in when sh wanted to! she was spot on the last 5 years of her life i finally walked away or i would of ended up in a wooden box before her!
2026-06-12 11:42:42
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