@midlifewithmeaning: The exhaustion of being the o e who always figures it out #midlifewomen #momsover50 #support #strongone #exhaustion

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blondeambitious
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“I never have to worry about you, you always figure it out”
2026-06-10 00:48:23
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sheggov
JMcGovGrud :
You’ve just described me. And just last week- my entire family forgot my birthday. And I told my husband “I need to know I’m on your radar.” That hurt his feelings and he became the victim. I’m sad and exhausted.
2026-06-08 12:27:11
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trendytracy
Trendy Tracy 🧑🏻‍🦰 :
I’ve stopped doing all the planning for my friends, and guess what? No one gets together any more. No girls nights. No girls weekends. No couples dinners out. Nothing. I got sick and tired of being the one who did EVERYTHING and no one else stepped in, and I am 100% ok with that. I’m happy and stressed free for the first time in a long time.
2026-06-08 17:31:30
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ssharia3
Sharia Wade :
Decision fatigue is REAL....
2026-06-09 19:48:53
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user12615416398692
Angel :
This resonates so much, well did, I am in my own now but when my husband was alive I was the go to the everything Mrs do Mrs go to I am beginning to live for me it’s so strange but good
2026-07-13 16:00:45
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gigi_gerilynn
Gigi Gerilynn :
I’ve had to figure out everything for everyone my whole life. I don’t get Christmas gifts. I don’t get birthday cards. My body is starting to rebel. I’m just so very tired
2026-06-09 02:14:55
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itsmrsmck
Mrs Mck :
Me… I know I am loved, but I know I am relied upon. I feel like a project manager instead of a wife sometimes. Anyone else?
2026-06-08 21:18:09
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user594285785385
user594285785385 :
When my husband asks we Qs he can look up just as easy. I just say idk. Even when I know. Like I’m not your secretary
2026-06-08 19:03:07
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shayshay8_
Shay Shay B :
Yes I’m so burnt out. A weekend of nothing doesn’t even reinvigorate me. Downtime is never enough.
2026-06-08 21:37:29
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cyntimothy
Cynthia Struempler T :
I'm so tired of being told how F***n amazing I am!
2026-06-11 11:30:59
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raqprice
RLP7550 :
I make decisions all day long that making a decision about dinner sends me over the edge
2026-06-10 17:56:31
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ccitbeme
CC012 :
I feel like my job is to manage everyone’s happiness
2026-06-11 12:10:05
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wayfarerheather
Heather Hawthorne :
I decided to put my skills to good use and planned my own solo trip when he refused to find time to plan our trip together. I leave in two weeks and couldn’t be happier! 🥰
2026-06-10 19:36:18
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mk7667
mk7667 :
When we go on a trip and a relative says, “We’re there to relax. It’ll all work out.” Yes it works out because I don’t relax.
2026-06-11 18:59:10
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jeannemallory
Jeanne Mallory :
I’ve done it all alone since I was 17. I’m so tired of making decisions.
2026-06-09 01:33:15
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holycrap_itslaura
Holycrap_Itslaura :
I just someone, just once, to think “who is taking care of the caretaker?”
2026-06-10 00:58:11
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coshdhaohcgdhwk
yup :
I am burnt out. the rest of my life is going to be this way.
2026-06-10 17:35:26
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mamahawk90
MamaHawk🌻 :
Educator, mama and who has to do everything!!! I am exhausted and never get help but always help others.
2026-06-11 12:26:37
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pettylabelle40
🔮👸🏾Janell👸🏾🔮 :
I literally was in tears last night because it just one thing after another right now and I can’t catch a break
2026-06-09 16:51:45
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whimsicalwitch1
Wally, Lulu and Pudge :
This is so hard to explain to people who don't get it. I love this explanation
2026-06-10 20:18:53
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senorapalmer
Linda Palmer765 :
Im tired of explaining why I’m tired.
2026-06-10 13:30:49
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chatrise
Chatrise :
EXHAUSTED!!!!!
2026-06-10 01:58:44
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scrummdiddleydoo
Scrumdiddleydoo :
I've been THE caregiver since I was 9 years old. I was diagnosed with brain cancer last year. And I'm still expected to be THE caregiver. It's exhausting. For once, I want to be taken care of.
2026-06-08 20:32:51
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christy8140
Xty :
I have finally stopped planning certain things. And it’s amazing how much my husband has stepped up.
2026-06-09 20:14:43
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jayzeepea
jayzeepea :
I google one way flights to Bali so often it's a personality trait.🤣😭😩
2026-06-09 01:01:54
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