xoxo, cj •relationship burnout
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Larry Balducci Jr :
when you were going through this and "done" were you also at the point of no romantic feelings towards him and have no interest in intimacy at all? my wife has said this to me. she is burned out. I'm in coaching. she moved out. talked divorce in the beginning and talked to lawyers ect. she said she was holding off on the divorce for now. but our progress has been stagnant. at least I think so. I'm working on detaching but man it's difficult. and yes I'm doing my self work for me.
2026-06-12 10:26:21
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It’s JJK :
It still sounds so backwards to me to be willing to NOT fight for the relationship when all I’ve ever heard is “things will be hard and you have to fight to keep it if you love it”. It just doesn’t make sense to let her go.
2026-06-07 22:09:47
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😮💨❤️🩹 :
should i send her a voice note in like 4-6 weeks of no contact just saying i hope shes doing well and her life gave her all good and i dont require a reply from her
2026-07-03 09:07:46
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parkerjeff88 :
My wife and kids left almost 2 weeks ago. Could you provide some coaching? My wife is the BOP
2026-06-09 20:58:30
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Yo Mama 🆘🇺🇸 :
No he waited to long I’m on the other side of grief and I’m never going back to the chaos
2026-06-07 22:59:53
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Adam Paigge :
in this entire video you never once talk about how it must have been affecting him.
2026-06-23 01:27:02
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HannahPierry :
This helps immensely. Thank you. ❤️
2026-06-07 21:32:51
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Heather Barrington :
How long were you guys apart before getting back together again?
2026-06-10 02:14:19
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Cody Burk :
This really affected me. Going through this right now…
2026-06-08 02:16:25
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amina :
Did you feel just as lost in life as you did in your relationship/marriage? I worry that sometimes the defeat someone, in my case, is feeling isn’t only about the relationship, but about life as a whole — work, responsibilities, emotional exhaustion, survival mode. So space from the relationship may help, but space from life’s constant obligations may be just as necessary. I also understand work can be both: an inadvertent helpful distraction and one of the very things draining them, contributing to the burnout that eventually spills into the relationship that this person on my end isn’t able to get/take space from.
2026-06-07 20:56:35
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oyabwife8 :
my aunt remarried same guy after 16 years of divorce. they granddaughter asked them y they divorced and neither one of them had an answer which sparked a conversation and made them realize that they truly loved each other still
2026-06-08 03:25:38
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The Bruja's Familiar :
Thanks for sharing your story. It's encouraging to hear how healing it can be to disengage and that sometimes people will grow when the situation asks for it. Right now I am prioritizing my own wellbeing and putting the responsibility on him to do the healing he hasn't done -- no more caretaking on my part
2026-06-07 22:10:49
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Mitchell Haines :
what do I do if she wanted no contact but keeps reaching out in the process even though I respected her wishes and went no contact?
2026-06-09 07:02:03
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Yuwi :
Im getting tired. 😔
2026-06-07 22:57:57
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Jwills01 :
He said loves me and cares for me but to give up all hope of our relationship working out again. He made me promise to become the best version of myself.
2026-06-08 00:29:46
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Denver :
my wife and kid left a month ago she said she need space while she was in the flat but i didn't give it to her a week after she said she and my son is going to stay at our sons friend mother and her granma but i kept on pushing for answers say i change and but she was emosianaly tired and told me to give her space to find her self again and whant to feel that way over me.we do c eqch other everywknd but atmosphere feel heavy we do text but not like always she always say you want tot talk i dont just give me space to feel okay agian but i'm afraid if i step back i might loose her for good coz i hurt her alot emosionaly she is dead towords me yesterday she text must she come make us lunch something she never done in the last 2 months we go to shops together but conversations feels force as long if we dint talk about us is good if i mention something about our marrige she shut down her word always is just gibe me space to heal myself so that i can feel agian what i felt for you saterday i looked at her and say hey i love u and she said it back yesterday agian there is hugs butmt not like always what must i do
2026-06-08 11:30:14
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Adri_anna :
this is the part im on. waiting on him to let go and see if I can make it back
2026-06-08 01:04:38
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Todd_B14 :
I will never stop fighting for her behind the scenes because no contact being enforced by EPO. Legal entities need to stay out of relationships.
2026-06-11 14:32:33
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Ric :
😭😭😭
2026-06-07 23:30:03
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Lori Schneider421 :
❤️❤️❤️
2026-06-07 22:39:54
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Selemagae :
🥰🥰🥰
2026-06-12 09:04:59
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