@mariiamtalks_: The moment I realized my parents weren’t able to put my best interests first was the moment I knew I had to choose myself. Moving out before marriage came with guilt, judgment, and a lot of pushback. But staying somewhere that was costing me my peace wasn’t an option anymore. Choosing yourself isn’t selfish. Sometimes it’s necessary. #southasian #muslimwomen #movingout #toxicparent #southasiantiktok

️ :

Bro I don’t have money

KNUX :

Thank you, I had a lot of doubts about it, been saving up to move out for good, but the closer I get to the goal, i start to second guess myself

pinkbulbasaur :

so proud of the girlies that have the ability to see that parents don't always have your best interest at heart and the courage to take the steps to put themselves first. I didn't and it's the biggest and only regret I have in my life. listening to them has only made my life more difficult than it should have been.

S O P H I E :

Girl it’s been 6 years & im living my best peaceful life allhumdulilah ♥️♥️♥️

R.K :

I'm planning too✨

nana :

I'm going to move out of my parents' house in a few months. The situation is that we will be in the same city, so the chance of meeting them on the street is incredibly high. This scares me

Zainab | College Athlete :

This will be me soon omg

🪷 :

yes but literally how

Zé Waveside :

Wishing you mental peace. 💯 it happens to all of us regardless of religion. stay away from people who stress you out

Its_Fatimay🐣🫀 :

Manifesting my escape 😭

nefo ✞ :

I’m Nigerian and feel the same. Hopefully can save and move

shelly :

Relatable

Nine2024 :

So proud of you ladies for breaking That cycle of toxic behaviour!

a :

Soon it’ll be me!

aisha :

REALLLL

jbenkeba :

I feel you and can relate! I left when I was 22 and have been living on my own ever since. Never felt better.

Myra :

You gotta do what you gotta do and that means choosing yourself, the life you want to build, and the identity of yourself you want to invest in!

Zoe :

same

Ciiltira 🦋✨ :

You don’t need your parents approval for you to he a good Muslim. As an adult you need to respect your parents and support them if they need you. The rest is you and God. As a parent am guilty too but not that much. Sometimes we undermine our kids and what we know as protective is saficating our children.

repswith.ana :

I also Need to move on

selenakam86 :

zak :

faak still very hard struggling means very hard as iam from south means decan

mah :

°❀⋆.ೃ rayana ࿔*:･ 💌 :

my mother says only certain ppl move out but the second i turn 19 im gone i just dunno how to tell her before she alsosaid ill have less marriage prospects since i live alone i said idc but lately ive started saying yes to everything moving out in two yrs for uni hopefully