@claireauden: #covertnarcissist #narcissisticabuse #abuseawareness #abusiverelationship #narcissisticabuse

Caranne :

I did and they didn't believe me

Katie Moradi :

Seriously! Most people prefer their own comfort/safety over protecting and standing up to abuse.

Laurie :

yes but what I learned along the way is they can only meet people as deep as they've met themselves, so when you grow you're actually leaving the ones who can't handle the truth behind 🙏 I hope you're OK 💫✨️

J :

And then they also will tell you they hate being a therapist friend? This happened to me.. my “friend “ would tell me how she hates when people use her as a therapist and tell her things. Yes that was awkward. And I had a friend/ mom group who just wouldn’t acknowledge me when I would say something about my narc and I even had a “friend “ from my group chat send me information where I could reach out to get support from professionals. What makes this confusing is the other moms could vent about their relationship ex’s and they all support her? It’s so odd. Anyways needles to say I’m not in the group anymore probably never really was anyway! And my other friend who says she doesn’t want to be a therapist well I’m just not going to see her anymore. I’ll get through this time on my own. And watch tic tok pages like this one for inspiration and guidance 🥰

justahappyhippie :

exactly why I never told ANYONE

Me :

Sis, I feel you. This happen to me. I left after the first incident. However, when I came out and told people why I left I’ve had maybe 2 people check in on me. Now I’ve moved forward in my life I’ve realised how I’m not the issue it’s them! Those who don’t want to walk with you on your journey leave them behind. Find your new community!

nickname :

one advice. leave quitely

FrugalChef :

i remained silent..no one would believe it anyhow..

Kristy Drower🩷 :

LOUDER 👏👏👏👏

Miriam Igoe :

Yes ❤️❤️❤️thank I

Monteirastrazs :

And I don't have anything to do with them, and haven't for years now...

Loving Lilith :

100%. those here understand, we're here for you 💜

shokunin_369 :

No no no no 😳 powerful people erase us - look at what happened to MJ the King 👑 of Pop even he couldn’t “win” only now decades later he is getting public justice. “Powerful” people won’t let their reputation suffer. You are 💯 correct

Plumbing_Ninja :

Happening now with me. Lost a lot of friends. Well at least I learned who wanted me around and who didn’t. Ha. Lesson learned.

Stella Heliconia 🇵🇸♿️🌈🍁 :

Yes. This happens a lot

starbuckmarquis :

Yep because the idea of exposure and the actual exposure are two different things entirely. “Not my brother dad boss”

Terri :

Exactly!!

sunkissed :

yep , trauma can happen to anyone. I've been told to write a book and it wasn't a vote of confidence

Refração :

best filter of my life...

Steph Louise :

can we say this louder everyone needs to hear this 🙌 👏

ultravioletrae333 :

LOUDER!!!

Shawn Taylor Sauce :

I've have trying to get my family to understand it but they don't give a fark

thehealingmediumpia 🇿🇦 :

SJ Legg :

🥺❤️🫶 thinking of you