@psychologydecoded2: Women often complain online about men doing “the bare minimum” when planning and executing dates. In today's episode, I present a number of arguments why it may – in fact – be in men's best interests to do as little as possible, especially early in the courtship process. Besides enabling men to establish sustainable reinforcement protocols, doing as little as possible helps men separate the women who really like them from the women who simply want to use them for their own purposes. This is why men need to do the bare minimum. #phycology #men #dating #relationshiptips #marriage

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dabrick6
dabrick_boba :
How do I fix it? I did her a princess treatment now and she treat me like I’m not matter
2026-09-01 08:13:24
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striderdnb
Ultraviolet420 :
tried this and still got cheated fam
2026-08-04 02:43:57
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thatsweirdfilms
ThatsWeird :
I agree somewhat.. you can go up and down with your effort, any stable amount of effort of slow increase over time wont work, you need to be like a roller coaster. highs and lows, dont be afraid to give alot of effort, and then snag it right away 👍
2026-08-07 12:56:33
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wherethewindleads
wherethewindleadsme :
Makes a lot of sense actually. I'd take "bare minimum" with a grain of salt - it's not an optimization problem. But why would you go "above and beyond" and treat a still almost stranger to a ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐ experience just because she said yes to spending some hours with you? It's the fear that you're not enough, so you have to wow her with something exclusive and expensive.
2026-07-15 14:39:32
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ktfoxxxl8
lightworker :
I've been there done that it was a big mistake 😏
2026-07-29 15:22:05
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user4814003757971
VIPER ✊🏽👑 (Vusie) 🇿🇦® :
just leave it alone fam
2026-09-03 09:14:26
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hydranewz
HydraNewz :
I have been doing thr bare minimum my whole life, and I have always been in control, never been dumped and got loads of them 💪
2026-08-23 16:31:04
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realitycheque_gad
Reality Cheque pod _Gad :
got it
2026-08-16 22:41:30
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aghaone8
Ishtiaq Sarwar287 :
how 👍
2026-07-29 18:13:30
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blueman852
Panthera :
True
2026-07-21 21:11:26
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aghaone8
Ishtiaq Sarwar287 :
🥰 true
2026-07-29 18:14:15
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1nh33
Nh :
Can you imagine if a employer started promoting people based on their looks as opposed to their work, yes it will be a disaster 🤔
2026-09-17 10:51:43
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beyondthefear1
BeyondTheFear :
Bottom line, you have to take care of yourself. A relationship is not the priority
2026-07-13 10:51:12
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chatonnement5
chatonnement :
long story short ... -if she likes you everything is FREE -If she doesn't like you everything is a FEE... just saying..☺️
2026-08-01 07:22:47
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chatonnement5
chatonnement :
some guys go on dates with flowers and shiit where other guys are going with condoms.... you guys need to wake the fuuck up...🤣🤣
2026-08-01 07:42:48
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amegbetor68
Amegbetor :
You must have some troubled women in your life…I respectfully disagree as a married man…
2026-08-19 06:30:50
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sirwanahmed1
Sirwan Ahmed :
👍👍👍
2026-07-06 22:07:19
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chuhsamuel
chuh Samuel :
❤️❤️❤️
2026-06-12 18:15:51
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kamaravarmah
Komon Senze :
🥰
2026-08-12 08:54:30
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