@alex_topolsky: Most people try to make others feel comfortable by saying the right thing. Wrong approach. People don’t relax because of your words. They relax because of your state. If you’re anxious, overthinking, seeking approval, or trying to impress them, they’ll feel it. But when you’re comfortable in your own skin, present, and genuinely at ease, people naturally mirror that energy. Your nervous system gives people permission to relax. Want better conversations, stronger connections, and more charisma? Stop trying to calm other people down. Calm yourself down first. People don’t respond to what you say. They respond to who you are being. Share this with someone who overthinks social situations.

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