@growwithkaela: DARVO means Deny, Attack, Reverse Victim and Offender. It’s not just a narcissistic tactic. Your DA does a version of it too, and it’s just as disorienting. The difference is intent. A narc flips the script for power. A DA flips it for survival. But the result is the same. You end up apologizing for having a valid feeling. You’re not crazy, and you weren’t too sensitive. You just held up a mirror they refused to look into.
Grow with Kaela
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Monday 08 June 2026 15:10:41 GMT
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gary s. broderick :
what is DA?
2026-06-08 16:55:30
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Kay :
Can you make this so I can download?
2026-06-09 03:09:21
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Gggdh :
District attorney. That’s why it’s so hard to go to court.
2026-06-09 01:34:03
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Gegoben :
You have a good message, but not defining DA is an odd choice, leaving half your message a mystery.
2026-07-05 15:15:16
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Dawn :
I don’t apologize. I tell him he’s acting like a baby. I don’t play into his games.
2026-08-07 06:41:26
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Vesper :
lol when you ask them about one of the people they use for validation. “Oh I got to know them while they were in a relationship!!!” Like what?
2026-08-07 16:31:51
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It’s too much ✨ :
Good to know it’s got a name
2026-07-28 00:16:32
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skibidiadolfh :
Literally my wife. Then she accused me of doing this lol
2026-07-31 15:10:38
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Hucklecat :
Same outcome either way.
2026-06-08 17:57:52
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PJ :
Appreciate this clarity. Told I was too much, and there was “always something!” But nothing ever got addressed
2026-08-07 13:51:32
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JustenCarGuy83 :
Every single time...
2026-07-30 12:19:15
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Soy_Meño :
I love your tattoo can we see it more fully!?
2026-06-11 22:19:09
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Alex Schmid :
I dont think there is any difference to the victim between a covert narcissist and a dismisssive avoidant.
2026-06-09 12:49:15
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Damien Euell :
This hit. For the longest I thought they were narcissistic. But, this made /makes sense. 🙏💙
2026-06-09 23:34:28
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Lea :
I refuse to apologize. That apparently makes me a monster, but oh well
2026-06-10 02:13:07
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MamaB :
dammit, I knew my DA was doing it
2026-06-09 17:02:48
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Risto :
Yep it happened to me and I had the smarts to notice it in real time 😅
2026-06-17 22:29:15
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Flowerchildnay :
Yesssss this, he would be like “It’s the way you speak. It’s your tone.” So they’re not conscious of this?
2026-06-09 17:50:08
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Green Thumb :
what do you do when they do this?
2026-06-08 16:07:29
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Erika Michelle :
This is so true.
2026-06-13 13:23:51
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Prepper Dawg :
it's real
2026-06-09 11:02:57
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Jo :
I was called jealous and over reactive when he would flirt with other women.
2026-06-08 21:28:34
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bid :
I just dont care anymore I didnt ask them to build that in my house
2026-06-09 16:07:56
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